lol i thought since i've been dabbling in PUA for while it wasn't proper to introduce myself with just a hello.
I'm going to describe to you my game. You can tell a lot about a person by how they deal with situations, and hopefully my experiences help you, and let you know exactly who i am. My username is Var1able, but you can call me Enquinbue. Here is how I go about a pickup.Most girls will either love to flirt or be very susceptible to sweet talking. In most cases you can tell right away and jump right into flirting or sweet talking (possibly both) and move on easily from there, the metaphor i like to use is a nail being hammered into a block of wood, starting of with a few little taps to get it into place and gradually hitting it right on the head harder and harder until its nailed in. The first few taps in my experience are the most important, so i use a little "modified cold reading" in my initial move in a set. This "modified cold reading" is just a little term i've coined for things to say that will set you up to make magic with nearly every type of woman. Naturally theres some exceptions but the idea behind cold reading is saying something that applies to everyone yet is specific to whoever you're talking to.
My new favorite is walking up to a girl with a grin on my face and saying "i win". These two words are so great for determining exactly how a girl will react to everything else you throw at her, and it builds mystery at the same time. I've heard anything from "well congratulations." (which i replied, "congrats to you too! I'm ____") to a curious "why?" (which i replied "because i now have the attention of a beautiful woman") to "what do you win?" and even one girl ignored it and started having a conversation while acting as if i hadn't confused her to begin with. My point is theres a lot of things like this to say right off the bat that will hint at how to deal with the situation.
Anyway after a bit of convo i can pretty much determine what move to make next. If I'm able to joke around with a few semi questionable jokes i push it further and start talking dirty. If she prefers a more serious conversation i try for more a more "intimate" approach. (talk quieter, more contact, look directly into her eyes as i speak)
From there i just escalate whats already in place. Patience is key, i've noticed, you can escalate more as you go on but the only opposition you will get is if you go too fast into it. I try to keep the maximum amount of sexual/emotional tension without going over the edge so she doesnt lose interest and she gets more attracted as time goes on.
You can pretty much guess the end result, although i do this for more than just sex, people. I don't do one night stands and I try to keep contact with the girls i pick up. I don't use women, and i've notice my power of attraction can be used for more than just my own purposes. It can better their lives as well. Word of wisdom: always leave a mark happier than you found her.
Finally, I'd like to say proudly that I live by the four agreements and the golden rules of NLP.
4 agreements:
1.)dont take things personally
2.)always do your best
3.)don't make assumptions
4.)be impeccable with your word
nlp presuppositions:
1.)the map is not the territory
2.)there is no failure, only experiences to learn from
3.)mind and body are interconnected
4.)you are always communicating
5.)all actions have a positive intention behind them
6.)the unconscious mind is benevolent
7.)meaning comes only from your interpretation of communication
8.)flexibility leads to the greatest impact
9.)modeling excellent behavior leads you to excel
10.)we have all the resources we need to succeed
11.)we communicate on more than an unconscious level
12.)90% of communication is nonverbal
13.)the map becomes the territory... our reality either is or changes to fit the way we see the world
Thanks for reading this far. I'm quite the talker as you can see.
-Enquinbue
