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| Author: | templeCRUSH [ Wed Oct 27, 2010 4:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Newwwww and already need looking for advice. |
Being in a college SPAM you would think it would be easy to meet people especially girls, wrong. I mean yeah they're everywhere and it is great for day game which is suppose to lead into even better night game but not when there's no game. I'm not complaining so don't think of me as a whiny bitch it's just I'm getting bored of the same routines and shit ya know? SO a little more about myself. I'm 21 (22 on halloween fuck I'm old), 5'8 blonde hair and blue eyed. I'm really not that bad looking of a kid but until recently (as in 2 weeks ago) I've been nothing but extremely self-conscious about myself. Thus, I've had really low self-esteem for the pass two years. During the last two years I've gotten maybe 2 girls numbers just outta friendship but that didn't lead to shit they pitied me. So I decided I needed a change and I transferred schools and now here I am yet again kinda finding myself slowly entering the same spot but this time I'm saying fuck that and making a change for the better. I was introduced to the community when I read the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I couldn't put the fucking thing down and I read the book in less than 2 days, while working 8 hours out of the 2 days. When I bought The Game I noticed another book by neil and that title was learn attraction in 30 days. I thought yippy and I read it and I only did for like the first 4 or 5 days because then it got outta my comfort zone so as quickly as I had thought I entered the community I exited. As my roommate was already banging girls here I found myself reentering the depression and for most of September and even october till about last week. I reentered the game and this time with focus and determination. Work = progress is my motto and I've been putting my work. I really believe hypnosis is the starting point for me. Now that I feel more confident in myself I feel my depression and self-anxiety slowly going away and I really honestly feel great. I really can relate to all you guys and as I sit here typing this I know someone else is gonna read it and relate to it as well which makes me feel even better. I tried introducing my friends to this but they just don't get it. Stubborn and naive they are but fuck it more girls for me, but hey true friends are suppose to look out for one another. Anyways like I said I've been doing my homework. I listened to gamble, he's great, and I've been doing self-hypnosis once a day I try to at least. The first night I listened to gamble I was feeling great, at a bar, and I was getting IOIs all over. Girls were approaching me not in a verbal way but rather an attraction way. Did I capitalize? Nah I almost shit my pants but it felt good to actually realize what was going on. No I didn't bring home the Ohio State captain cheerleaders but I felt like I did even though I didn't even talk to one girl at the bar because I knew that some of those IOI's were for me directly and I've missed the attraction between women and myself. So now its time, tomorrows a new day I'm going to do whatever I can to make myself out there. I just need some direction brothers. I need to learn how to approach better, not necessarily in a club scene but rather a public scene. I need to learn how to control my nervousness and over come it. I need some greater openers to start conversation. Any direction to be given? Respectfully, M |
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