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| Author: | umerh [ Mon Oct 11, 2010 6:09 am ] |
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O.K from Here is the deal if some one can help my friend: Dear Pickup Artist(s): I have a very close friend of mines who was talking to this girl for a year. (Via Text, online, and Phone), she lives in our neighbor hood but seldom met her. But over the year he developed an interest in her but failed to express it to her. Apparently another person has seduced her and is going out with her. This has left my friend emotionally and mentally upset. I doubt the girl does not know any thing but my friend has shied so far to express his feelings for her. The solution i told him was to do cat string theory and go filthy with another girl but he does not want to do so... According to him its morally wrong to do so and does not want to be interested in another girl.. Poor little thing i don't know what to do with this guy.. Please help.. |
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| Author: | Adam days [ Mon Oct 11, 2010 1:28 pm ] |
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Wat-up! Ok he feels its morally wrong to hook up with another girl, understood! Well my friend, the question as i've understood it is basically how can you help him get the girl back? in wich case i would suggest you tell him to A. Learn some NLP phrases and use it on her to elicit emotions, but then the question of morals could arise, and i personally would not take that road. or you could B. Tell him to actually express his feelings for her in a direct and honest way If he hasn't done that yet. Doing the cat string theory at this point i dont think would be effective, since your friend as you explained didnt take steps to get intimate with the girl. And since she did get seduced by some other guy, well the situation is pretty much selfexplanatory in the sence that she let herself get seduced by some other guy even though your friend was a part of her life. But... If the question is How can i help my friend get over this girl? I would in that case suggest you ask questions that would reframe the way in wich he thinks of his relation with this girl, and a as a result he would stop seeing her as the ONLY girl in the world for him, and start the process of getting over her. an example of such a question would be: Do you really whant the girl of your dreams to be susceptible to seduction? or do you whant her to see through that and be able to see who is the best guy for her? Now i just came up with that one, but maybe you now know what Im getting at. I hope this helped! You can find me on facebook, Adam Daze Lots of fun treat coming up! |
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