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Author:  23-year-old-virgin [ Tue Sep 28, 2010 11:09 pm ]
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You got my intro in my user name.

I orderd the book "the Game," going to read it and then start posting here. See you in less than two weeks.

Bye!
Author:  MrBigSmile [ Tue Sep 28, 2010 11:49 pm ]
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Good luck! I've been in the same situation. I started out with "The Game" to.
Author:  Mikkel [ Wed Sep 29, 2010 3:16 am ]
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I started out with the game also, Then moved on to Deangelo's stuff. Iv'e read stuff from everybody. Welcome
Author:  StevoRB89 [ Wed Sep 29, 2010 11:13 am ]
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Hey, im Stephen (Stevo) from Belfast, Northern Ireland.
I've kissed about...5 girls? Slept with 2 of those 5, and got a bit further than just kissing with 1 of them. I got into the game by reading the book "The Game", (Still not done it but it's hard to put down). I haven't actually tried any stratagy or technique before so I'm hoping to gather some ideas and tips from people on this forum. I'm quite a confident person except for when it comes to girls I want to "get to know" - I play guitar and sing which I was planning on using as my version of Magic to impress girls with? Good idea? Bad idea? Let me know. My goals are simply to be more confident with girls, flirt with them, know how to read them better. I think what i want to learn mostly is everything leading up to the kiss close stage. I think that if I get to that stage I know what to do to get a girl home if I wanted to.

So yeah, let me know if your on the same boat as me, If you thing the guitar/singing to impress the girls is a good idea, and please just give me tips on problems I post up about.
Thanks! :D
Author:  Genuine [ Wed Sep 29, 2010 11:47 am ]
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a friend of mine sometime last year started hanging with me..
he had just turned 21 and was def very shy around women.. My point for him
was that he could talk to any woman.. He was around 5'9 bout 160 blondish hair
and very proud to be Irish.. so.. his name became Irish.. So to prove a
point.. I asked him, what girl here do you feel is the most attractive..
he gestured to this one girl whom was walking by.. so.. I opened her..
I couldnt even tell you what I said to her.. but kept her interest for a bit
got info on whatever I wanted to know.. played on the feedback she gave me..
eventually excusing myself away to talk to friends.. basically.. I was ending
the conversation with her so that I could speak to Irish again about his situation
Stating.. see wasnt that easy.. we simply gained the attention of the most
attractive girl here and kept her interest.. we didnt come off as creepy
or.. trying to get anything from her.. just a fun conversation.. along the course of
the night we spoke to a few groups of other girls.. one group bought us shots..

He later mentioned.. "Hey.. have you ever heard of Neil Strauss?".. I replied..
I have not, who is he?.. he then mentioned him working for rolling stone and then
mentioned that book.. The Game..
I then said.. I have not yet heard of either..
He then began to tell me a bit about the book and that he had it and I should borrow it
because alot of what I was doing seemed similar to what he read in the book..

I read the book and absolutely loved it.. and was amazed that their was a whole
science dedicated to picking up women.. previous to reading.. anytime
I heard of "pick up artists" I thought of leisure suit Larry for some reason..
so it always turned me off to the idea..

Being that I use to be very very shy.. and at age 22 had only slept with 3 girls.. and
after the third gf hurt me.. and left me.. I was soo pissed that I was usually
the guy "In the friend Zone".. I forced myself to get out of my shell.. by mid into
being 23 I was a diff person.. and was getting alot more attention.. the
kind of attention I prayed for just a year or so prior.. it was funny.. it
was more of an attitude and confidence adjustment.. I decided I didnt care if
some people rejected me.. Im gonna talk to whom I want.. and whatever happens
happens.. of course at first.. yes.. i did get rejected ALOT.. but..
a friend that was pretty good with women.. said to me.. to kind of treat girls
especially those that know they are attractive.. like a bratty lil kid.. pick on them
a bit.. and with my change in confidence and attitude.. plus that bit of advice
which I now know is called "Negging" it made a huge diff..

so.. because I was that guy who was shy.. I enjoyed hangin with Irish and getting
into convs with groups of women with him as my wing.. and seeing him start getting girls comin to him and wanting him... made me feel like I helped..
He started applying what he read alot more..


I am always trying to broaden my skills and learn more and also love helping others improve their game as well..
Author:  MrBigSmile [ Wed Sep 29, 2010 4:25 pm ]
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so.. because I was that guy who was shy.. I enjoyed hangin with Irish and getting
into convs with groups of women with him as my wing.. and seeing him start getting girls comin to him and wanting him... made me feel like I helped..
He started applying what he read alot more..


I am always trying to broaden my skills and learn more and also love helping others improve their game as well..
I tried to introduce lots of my friends into the game. They all seem interested at first but backed out sooner or later. Like they just didn't read the stuff I gave and advised them. They back down when it comes to aproaching girls.
Even though they noticed I'm getting very good with woman, they still aren't determinated to do something about their weak skills.
They just say I'm succesfull because "my good looks". Can you believe it?

It must be really nice to have a wing and be able to help friends. I am on my own constantly, when it comes down to sarging.
Author:  Genuine [ Wed Sep 29, 2010 6:33 pm ]
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forgot to mention.. he is no longer my wing... his home town was in Washington state.. so he eventually moved back.. but I still keep in contact with him...

also.. I had never heard of Neil Strauss or Mystery until he mentioned it to me.. he said the way I was saying the things I said was alot like them.. so.. I became curious.. and was amazed... I never had titles for the things I did.. also.. my methods were very unstructured.. He had already read The Game and had a couple other things on the subject.. he just never applied it.. He was shy.. but after hangin with me for a bit.. I started pickin on him sayin.. Buullshit.. yer not shy.. and he was like.. well.. not anymore... I was impressed that the girls that were into him.. were really into him.. and girls still ask about him when I go back to the places hed come with me.. we had our own type of subtle peacocking.. he wore this damn Irish drinking glove alot.. that even though I didnt say it.. I thought was a lil silly at times.. because.. it was one glove.. and Irish Michael Jackson was mentioned at times.. but.. he did get alot of attention.. and if he didnt wear it.. people that remembered him would ask him where it was.. also.. girls would would want to wear it when he did.. so.. his glove which could be thought of as silly.. worked positively..
I have a few things I wear.. namely a couple arm bands.. and a way I wear a bandana.. it gives me a mean " I think Im a Badass" look.. but.. Im smiling.. so its disarming.. some guy who seen me talking to a group of girls.. came up one time and tried to blow me out by attempting to AMOG me.. which being that I coulda wiped the floor with him.. I was slightly impressed he tried it..
He asked me "So.. Why do you think your Tough".. I coulda used Matador's "cool man" thing.. and I wasnt even about to give him reasons why I thought I was.. but.. I did say.. "Because I am"... and followed by saying.. feel free to prove me wrong anytime.. and then ignored him and continued the conversation as if I didnt skip a beat.. he said a few more things.. but then.. the women I was talking to.. completely blew him out by crackin on him hard and mean.. .. one of which then asked me.. "what the hell was wrong with him" I said to her.. hmm.. He just thought I was cute.. he was only a couple feet away..
one of the girls seen the friends he was there with and advised they get their friend out of there before he got hurt.. which def made me feel good.. his friends looked at me.. saw their friend and dragged him out and apologized to me.. I said no harm no foul.. and continued my lovely evening..
Author:  galhopper [ Thu Sep 30, 2010 5:13 am ]
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Hey dude,

If it makes you feel any better, I'm also a 23 year old virgin! Been into PU for a bit but not been out enough for months-I cannot emphasize enough that you need to PRACTICE what 'the game' will teach you.

Anyways, good luck man! :)
Author:  McLavelli [ Thu Sep 30, 2010 7:07 am ]
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you've sucessfully completed the first step that we all had to do--admit we need help. good luck out there and remember enjoy your conquests and don't take any rejections personally :D it's all just a game.
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