Hello all,
My name is Chris, 26years old, from the Netherlands.
I read The Game a while back, and always wanted to check out the forum, but am only getting around to it now.
I need some help.
Last night I had a date with a great girl, who I'd definitely like to see again. I don't want to $%^& it up though..which I often do..
I haven't been in a relationship in a while (maybe 1.5 years), mainly because many girls haven't interested me. Most of my past relationships ended on good terms, but it almost always boils down to me being too nice and not giving the girl enough of a challenge. (although the girls always word it differently).
So anyway, last night I had a date with a girl that I like (she contacted me after she saw me on TV..apparently she found me attractive..and we chatted a couple of times before deciding to meet).
The date was pretty fun, but it didn't get at all physical; no contact what so ever. Normally I'd invite the girl over to my place after a date, but this wasn't an option yesterday since my mother happens to be in town and is staying at my place.....
So now I want to make sure I get to see this girl again, without scaring her away and without ending up in the friend zone.. What are some of the do's and don'ts in a situation like this?
I personally hate it when after a date someone asks, 'so what did you think of me?'..so I'll definitely avoid doing that..
Also I don't wanna seem desperate and text her to soon or anything.
What I was thinking about was this: tomorrow I'm getting a new mattress, which I also mentioned to her during the date..so I figured I'll text something like, 'just got my new mattress today..it lays really well
'..I figure a slightly sexually tinted message might be a good first contact after the first date. Your thoughts?Thanks for the help, and I look forward to becoming active on this forum!
Chris