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| Author: | rza [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 3:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | New guy, desperate for help |
Skip the formalities we all know why we are here etc etc. So after 4 days of me mass emailing women on pof i dont get no contacts back. What do i do, i dont have that AA thing so much as im not afraid to talk to women although i do get the jitters now and then. How do i improve my game in real life and also online. ALso does anyone know how to search for women looking for relationships within my postal/zip code Thanks everyone |
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| Author: | SpeXXX [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 4:10 pm ] |
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Hey man, I'd say lay off the pof for the moment and just go out there and find girls because the answer is really simple - you need to approach girls. You said you don't have approach anxiety (which is actually the easiest part of the game) so that's great, you just gotta find what is your sticking point. You are the one who supposed to find this out when you go out and ask yourself "What did I do wrong?" or "What just happened?", you see pick-up is about knowing yourself and getting better knowing what are your flaws. there is no shame of being rejected, you only learn from it for the next times. Now, I can give you the "just be confident" and "just be yourself" advices but it's stupid. Just go out there and internalize everything. As far as you know... all women are looking for cock (and relationships), you just gotta find them and turn them on |
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| Author: | rza [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 4:26 pm ] |
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thanks for the quick reply. Id say my major flaw is running out of things to say. I work in a supermarket and i often talk to my customers trying to improve myself, i find that after all the usual 'Hi how can i help' etc talk i run out of topics or things to say. I guess thats when the nervousness kicks in lol |
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| Author: | SpeXXX [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 4:46 pm ] |
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Having conversations while working is very limited unless you work as a sales rep who needs to build rapport with people. Anyway, you should read this thread about conversations how-to-be-a-better-conversationalist-vt ... highlight= |
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