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Author:  SuicideMessiah [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 10:03 am ]
Post subject:  Hit rock bottom, want to get up.

OK guys, here's the deal.

I am not an AFC. Where I'm at right now, I reckon I make your average AFC look like a pimp.

I'm 18 years old, 19 in a few weeks. I've never had a girlfriend in my life, I'm a broke-arse virgin without a job (Although I'm looking to fix that) who's currently living in his ultra-religious parents' basement as I go to uni every day. While I think I'm reasonably good looking, that's about all I got going for me right now.

In another world, I would probably have accepted my standing in life and waited until I can move out before I start my PUA career. However, it's my 19th birthday in a couple of weeks and I kinda made a resolution to myself that I'm gonna make some changes in my life before I hit 20. Number 1, resolving my issues with women.

My main problem is that I tend to get paralysed by fear when it comes to making moves - this is something I want to change. When I'm around my mates this isn't such a problem although when I'm around them I tend to turn into something women wouldn't touch with a 50 foot pole (i.e. Jay from Jay and Silent Bob) - but I'm in a new city and pretty much alone right now so I figure it's time to get my shit into gear.

So, where do I start? Basically I'm here for free advice cause I can't afford to buy stuff.

Author:  Steel654 [ Tue Jul 27, 2010 10:12 am ]
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You have to remember that there's nothing to be logically scared of. The worst that happens is you get turned down and learn from it.

Remember: Who dares, wins!

Force yourself to just talk to hot women, not hit on them. Then when you're OK with that, bump it up a notch. Don't think - JUST APPROACH & SAY WHATEVER. Eventually, you'll get the hang of it.

You don't want to spend the rest of your life being scared of nothing, do you? Don't sit here wondering "what could have been?" if only you'd taken a chance.

Rejection is NO BIG DEAL. Why care what the girl thinks? You'll never see her again anyway. Move on to millions of other women on the planet & keep practising.

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