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Author:  banditto [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 5:30 am ]
Post subject:  bandito joins with very poor game - from scotland

hi All

Recently had a bit of time off from a tricky schedule. Thought that i would be able to jump right back into the swing of things with women. I was primarily using the free dating site plentyoffish for my source of dates.

Over the last 2 months, i seem to have really lost my mojo.

Date 1 (looks 5/10)- 2 months ago, met in bar, stayed till 12.20. Was a weeknight, and went back to hers. K closed and got to second base too, but she started crying about her ex and I left. After that I mishandled my text game and things nose dived with the next few dates as shown below. I texted this one a bit but she only replied a couple of times.

Date 2 (looks 3.5/10) - 6 weeks ago. Again got them from the net, took her out to a bar and she left while i was in the bog.

Date 3 (looks 4/10) - 3 weeks ago. Took her out mid week, again from the net. We chatted for a bit, maybe 2 hours in a bar. By now I am beginning to use game. (at last they cry) I use kino at 9 pm, while still light on the way to her car and show her I can do a good massage. We kiss v. briefly on the lips. She goes home.
I text her the next day she doesnt reply. I speak online she dismisses me summarily.

Date 4 (looks 3.6/10) - 2 hours after date 3. Unbeknown to date 3 I went to meet some people I vaguley know in a bar around the corner. I am socialising well, the talent is not so good, but there you go.

I take one on to a bar on the proviso she is to get me a drink for the one I got her. She doesn't offer and I pay for them all. I go for a kc in the taxi queue and get her cheek. I still try and go home to her flat but she leaves me in the taxi.

I want to join the community to grow as a pua. I think i am nearly close, but not quite got the inner game, or outer game at the moment.

Any thoughts on the above would be appreciated of course.

thanks for reading
bandito

Author:  minsok [ Wed Jul 21, 2010 11:39 am ]
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Eh. Don't dwell on it too much. Do you even WANT to have sex with these girls? I've learned that women are pretty good at sensing disinterest/disgust/disappointment and will shut me down before I go through the motions for the sake of sex. I'm guessing that's where you're screwing up or you truly have no verbal game.

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