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| Author: | ddubb925 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 6:36 am ] |
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hey all, new here. I'm 17, just graduated high school. I'm skinny, normal height, and look a bit young for my age (late bloomer), but overall not too bad looking. Not brand new to PUA stuff, but I still kinda suck. Got into PUA with Mystery's VH1 show. I don't study any specific method, but I do do a lot of research, and watch a lot of Keys to the VIP (canadian pickup show) on youtube for some tips. I'm into skateboarding, fingerboarding (aka tech decking), photography, filming and editing, and a little skimboarding and snowboarding. |
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| Author: | ddubb925 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 6:40 am ] |
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sorry, it won't let me post the whole story at once, so I'm splitting it up: I know most people will say it's best to start with new girls, but here's the situation. I've had a crush on this one girl since I moved to the district five years ago. She's a "popular" girl, has lots of friends, very outgoing personality. Super hot, IMO. I was kind of friendly with her when I first moved there; I actually danced with her once at a dance, haha. Didn't talk with her in my early high school years at all, really. So, this year (senior year), I decided to see where I can take it, since she was in my english and gym class (for part of the year) and we had the same math teacher. I talked to her a bit in gym, and in math extra help a bunch of times (once I went just because she told me she was going to get help with an upcoming test.. probably seemed needy in retrospect, but I don't even think she knew I liked her). English is where it gets interesting. |
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| Author: | ddubb925 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 6:42 am ] |
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So, I'm kind of bad at initiating conversations with her outside of work-related settings, I help her with english stuff, because I'm pretty good in english (not displayed well in this story). talk with her in group assignments, but the conversations are usually playful. I'm pretty funny in conversation. I'm jewish, not religious, and she once said to me as we were talking about religion, "you're my favorite Jew" and I said "me too," and she laughed. She invited me to her post-prom beach house, which of course I went to, but was a crazy party and the house was trashed, and I barely spoke to her (total disaster). I was way out of my group of friends, and it got a lot of people talking, in a positive way. |
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| Author: | ddubb925 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 6:43 am ] |
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At the end of the year, I went balls out in many respects, but in English class in particular. For my senior anthology (huge end of the year english project) I actually recited lady gaga lyrics and told a story about my fingerboarding (aka tech decking) hobby, and demo'd it. This was pretty successful, the story spread around in a positive way. It made her laugh so hard she was literally crying of laughter. Really interesting situation follows: |
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| Author: | ddubb925 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 6:45 am ] |
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So, she presents hers a few days later, and at the end of hers, there's a QandA session at the end of everybody's presentation. A few days earlier at college orientation, at the end of a motivational speeech during the QandA, someone said "I have a question, not a comment, but you have a really beautiful smile." and everybody laughed, so I thought I would do something similar during his. |
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| Author: | ddubb925 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 6:52 am ] |
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(one of the requirements for the presentation was dressing formally). I raise my hand and say, "I have a comment, not a question, but you look really beautiful today." |
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| Author: | ddubb925 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 6:53 am ] |
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Instead of laughs, I get "awwwwwww"s from my classmates (besides a few friends who laughed), she said, "aw, thank you David!" but I kind of thought it was a disaster; joke gone awry. I didn't talk to her directly afterwards, so I felt really weird about it. |
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| Author: | ddubb925 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 6:53 am ] |
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A day or two later, I talk to her in the hall (utilizing the over the shoulder strategy) and ask her if she thought my comment was uncomfortable, she said it wasn't uncomfortable, and then she raved about my presentation again, playfully slapping me. |
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| Author: | ddubb925 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 6:56 am ] |
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I attempted to awkwardly continue the conversation, I probably could have made some sort of move here. She has a boyfriend by the way, but she had told me that she didn't think it was serious, and the guy was too clingy (as proven by the recent breakup). |
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| Author: | ddubb925 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 6:58 am ] |
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She has my number, and we're friend on facebook, and I used the prom house as an excuse to use both to talk to her. Otherwise, we haven't talked out of school since 8th grade. |
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| Author: | ddubb925 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 7:00 am ] |
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To make things a bit more complicated, her little sister (two years younger) has a crush on me, and we are actually doing a summer ultimate frisbee league together. I'm basically friends with her younger sister, possible opportunity to come in contact with her sister. |
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| Author: | ddubb925 [ Mon Jul 05, 2010 7:01 am ] |
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So, I saw recently on facebook that she (older sister that I like) broke up with her bf, and as far as I know isn't in another relationship. that's the situation, any thoughts, or suggestions on what I should do? should I use FB to chat with her? |
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