Hey guys,
I've entered game since a friend introduced me to "The Game" by Neil Strauss in March of this year. After reading the book, I realized these are exactly the answers I've been seeking all my life. By being not good with women, I was lacking confidence and felt incomplete. Since reading Neil's book, I've had a renewed purpose every day now, which is to get this part of my life handled. And I'm glad to say things have been going pretty well, and I am a much happier and more confident person after entering the game for 4 months.
Neil Strauss's book, though extremely entertaining to read, still lacks details in terms of content. In order to improve my game, I also read the Mystery Method, the Bang, Double Your Dating, and receive newsletters from several gurus(Vin DiCarlo, David D,...). I've also learned alot from Gambler's online videos, he is a good one. Also RSD's Tyler, I like the way they explain social situations and good vibes, which work very well. I like them all because they are all my teachers, and I appreciate each part of their game.
As far as how far I'm into the game, well, I went from a shy, kinda geeky 29 years old, Chinese guy, who was uncomfortable and scared of girls(especially white girls), to being able to #-close, or k-closes 8-9s with good success. Even if she is a 10, I am not scared anymore. Just a few days ago, I told this HB10 blonde that " I know you are a blonde and people always let you have it your way, but....I just wanna find out.....what else you've got going for you?"(Thanks to Gambler & c&f from David D.) You guys should see her face, it was hilarious! And her answer wasn't very good either!
I still haven't f-close yet, there were chances but I just haven't had the balls to let it go. I also blew some chances along the way by not escalating right. So after learning to overcome approach anxiety, I am going to tackle escalation anxiety next. However, just being able to approach groups of women in social situations whether it's a bar, restaurant, cafe, or grocery store, and to have great conversations and fun with them to create attraction, the experience has been mind-opening so far. And the confidence and comfort level has not only helped me with meeting women, but it has improved almost every aspects of my life.
Btw, I'm in Torrance area in SCal. If there is someone wants to wing let me know, I am having so much fun in S. Bay area that I don't even wanna go back home in Seattle!
Nice to be in the community, and looking forward to learning from everyone!
Sam,
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. I guess that's one of the reasons why Asian pua wannabes are struggling with approaching to HB10s. including me.