What's up bro?
Good luck and all the best. To try and fail is no shame, and the more you practice, the better you'll be. This I promise.
As helpful as reading is, and believe me it IS essential, it kind of pales next to in-field experience, both on your own and with a more experienced, teacher-esque wingman.
A few points related to AA/Opening...
How's your inner game? What state are you in before approaching? What limiting beliefs do you have poisoning your approach before it's even happened?
See this as a game...a mission...however you want to frame it. Just don't see it as life or death. Rejection is NOTHING compared to what you mentally see it as beforehand...rejection is key to learning to succeed.
I love the MM and the openers it teaches. I'd reccomend heavily getting hold of the show 'The Pickup Artist'. Next to experienced wingmen/bootcamps, this is probably the best practical demonstration of knowledge you'll get.
You could try a couple of tactics to get over this first stumbling block.
A lot of people just blanket approach a huge number of sets. This can work through sheer repetition and may kill a lot of your fear.
However, personally, I think that's gimmicky and not all that useful in terms of preparing you for some quality approaches. Instead, keep it simple. Memorise one or two openers you genuinely like, feel comfortable with and if possible genuinely convey something about you. Go somewhere you feel comfortable approaching, clubs are best for me personally. Make it your mission to approach, say, 3 sets an hour minimum. Simply approach, false time constraint, open, 'nice to meet you', eject.
This is step one. Do this, and I PROMISE you'll be ready to go further.
Your brother in pickup,
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) In the next few days im basically gunna go on my first day of sarging using gunwitch, tho nothing advanced im just starting the "synergy" a few sarging missions to get you using the methods he provides. First mission is to go up to at least 30 women, and ask for there number. I tried this before a few days and failed horribly, didnt approach one girl (AA) but now i think im ready, will be posting after ive done it with my results, PEACE