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| Author: | deeg [ Thu May 20, 2010 6:27 am ] |
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Hey guys I'm Cleezy, I just got done reading the game and the Mystery method. I've never had a problem getting the girl attracted ,but my mid-game legitamately sucks. I always find out when it's too late if a girl wanted to hook up or not. Basically what I am saying is I don't capitalize often. I can make a group laugh and make everyone comfortable ,but when it comes to one-on-one I am terrible. I find it hard sometimes to come up with interesting conversation. I am decent at telling stories to a group ,but my mind blanks . A lot of the time I have nothing to say to a girl one-on-one and I can't fake that I care what the girl is saying because I don't. I have approach anxiety up the ass also which doesn't help (my heart pumps a million miles an hour). I like to read about inner game because I think it helps the most out of anything. A mindset can change any type of adversity you feel. For example, I used to be nervous to peacock because when I walked to my classes people would judge me ,but now I see other people try to validate themselves to me ( girls fixing their hair, guys puffing out their chest to establish dominance, guys talking shit to make them feel better about themselves). Well before this turns into a fuckin novel I'll stop ,but I just wanted to say I am aboard this journey to become a PUA, find my best self, and I will humble myself to all of your advice/services. Thanks |
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| Author: | bits [ Thu May 20, 2010 2:08 pm ] |
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Good thing you changed about the peacocking. It's important to maintain the belief that other people think as much about their selves as you do about yourself. Thus, you can better not care what they think, since they don't care. Today, I was wearing big sunglasses with purple glass in it. Without a smile, it made me look a bit arrogant, with a smile I was just confident. In the train station, I noticed a man making way for me, even though I was 1 meter away from him, there was sufficient room and I had already decided to stop walking. The alpha and beta behavior was clear at that point. Good luck! |
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