Hi guys!
I am 20 year old student and when friend told me about pick up art I got really interested. For my whole life I didn't like talking to people much, except those that are very close to me. I grew up in a rough environment where there were two kinds of kids: Those who pick on and those that get picked on. As a fat kid I had to, sometimes literally, fight my way out of the latter group. That gave me a lot of good and bad experiences, but I got much stronger both physically and mentally (no longer a fatso lol). I never lacked confidence and humor, and I think I look quite decent now. But I somehow never seemed to get any girls. At first I thought that was because I was fat. Then about age 16-17 I got in shape, and was wondering why some of the guys I considered total fags got some very good girls. And I wasnt getting any. I was so frustrated that I even had to pay for sex a couple of times. Otherwise, I would have still been a virgin...
I have 2-3 friends that I can tell anything, a dozen of them that I can go drinking or playing soccer or stuff like that. I have couple of hobbies (strength training, boxing, aviation, video games).
Those 3 of my best friends are in about same situation as me. We are not some weirdo geeks, we are all athletic built, and I think that we are truly not ugly.
Thing is I am not scared, I just feel lame talking to girls, and feel awkward in that place. I got no female friends. There were a couple of situations where girls expressed they liked me but I felt the urge to tell them I am not interested, even though I was.
Me and a friend are wiling to get in some action. What would be your advice in where to start? Or is it too late to start at all?
Sorry if the post was too long, thanks for reading it
