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| Author: | rancid253 [ Wed Mar 17, 2010 6:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | AFC from Nor-Cal here. Plz read n reply. thanks. |
Aight...so im 17 and i've never had a girlfriend. I'm chinese and about 5'6. The reason is prolly cuz im waaaay too shy around girls. I have many guy friends and they know how to spit their game. I got really attached to this girl last year and i think i lost some confidence from her (if i even had any). She was a hollister model and we kicked it a few times. Then she left for college after summer and when i try to talk to her on facebook...she doesn't reply. But im hoping to lose my virginity before college starts...so can someone please help me out of the virgin zone...my mindset is soooooo BETA..if you've been through this before...hit me up. Oh ya...and i smoke weed everyday..im wondering if that'll get in the way of the game. |
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| Author: | Koffertgutten [ Wed Mar 17, 2010 6:37 pm ] |
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Hey, Well, first of all i would recommend you to make your post abit more tidy, and read the "Read before posting" post Anyways.. About the virgin thing.. i don't think you really should focus on that, this might sound kinda gay, and maybe it won't be welcomed here as this is a pickup forum, but here it goes; it's nothing that should be wasted on some random ass hoe, wait till you have a good relationship with a girl, then go for it, the first time shouldnt be a good experience with a person you trust. If i was you, i would rather focus on the fact that you're shy around girls. When you've done that you can start focusing on getting a date - and then, you can work the virgin thing. But i think you should post the issue in another part of the forum, feel free to PM me when you've done that. |
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| Author: | goodtimes09 [ Wed Mar 17, 2010 8:31 pm ] |
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I Agree with Koff that losing your virginity should not be a focus point for you right now. To be honest, I thought it was too early to lose my virginity in high school so I didn't even bother trying till college. The other thing he mentioned is merely an opinion. Virginity is nothing more than a word. And a word is nothing more than a symbol. If the word symbolizes something for you than yes you should be careful how you lose your virginity. If it doesn't, then it doesn't really matter how you do it. It's going to be the first of many anyway and it's not going to be fucking amazing. In fact, It'll probably be the worst sex you'll ever have. AS you keep doing it, it will get better and better. Of course that's also just my opinion. You'll have to decide for yourself which thought pertains more to you. |
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| Author: | afueh [ Wed Mar 17, 2010 11:14 pm ] |
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Hi, nice to meet you. I wouldn't worry about the virginity thing. That's generally a girl topic because they're the one in pain not you. Hey I'm a virgin to, but that hasn't stopped me from fooling around with girls. But I'd say you should work on your confidence, social skills, and no weed won't get in the way of your game. I smoke weed also. I say take a speech class if you haven't, read the book "The Game", it's basically what this forum is based off of. And get practice, start small, go to some house parties, or the club with some buddies, talk to girls. You get shut down, it's no problem, at least you're man enough to talk to her. hoped this helped a little. |
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