Hi everyone, newbie pomme in Sydney
I need to sort this problem out in my life. It's really beginning to get me down. I'm a very young looking 30 year old, I normally get 23 -26 as ages guesses.
I'm a massive romantic at heart and tend to get oneitis very easily.
My last girlfriend who split up with me a week ago, I got oneitis with her...thought she was different to all other girls, revealed my feelings to her early on etc etc it was a difficult period as I'm new to Sydney, she was great for a month, then just turned off completely, which looking at it is mainly, if not all my fault...and it gutted me...really liked her etc etc, just been getting myself sorted n ready for the new journey ahead...it's just one girl after all!
I gave up all my life back home in England to make a fresh start, sold my car, gave up apartment and packed a few clothes into a suitcase to make new friends and of course sort out my problem with women.
I guess it started early in life where I had a speech problem, I had to attend speech therapy, taken out of classes etc made me painfully shy for most of my life. Then onto the parents, as much as I love them to bits, they are quite conservative and never discussed sex with me etc...to the point where if there was a film with a sex scene on, they'd turn over! At school, girls would ask me out, and I'd just freeze. I was always a bit of a drifter, drifting around to whoever had the soccer ball that day!
Most of my success with women has been from them approaching me, I get told I'm a good looking guy...I'm 165lb and quite toned and have pulled a few 9ers in my time but all from them approaching me! The thought of walking up a woman I don't know, actually scares me!
I tried "game" a few years ago, got oneitis straight away, where if I'm honest with myself its because I didn't want to carry on pushing myself and stayed in an unhappy relationship for 3 years.........at this point in my life if I don't sort this out now, I'm scared this'll effect me for the rest of my life.
I'm now willing to make the changes I need to make as I can't go on like this, I want to start the journey that you guys are making!
I'm fairly fresh to Sydney and it would be cool to meet similar people, wingmen etc any lairs recommended etc, I just need to do this!
Thanks for listening guys/girls, it's nice to get some of that off your chest, will be a regular on here, hope to speak/meet some of you in the near future.
Any advice would be more than welcome
Bes