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| Author: | thefithone [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 7:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Guy from around Boston needs all the work that can be had |
Hey guys, For privacy sake, I'll restrict my name to my screename, but believe me, I could use all the help I could get. I just recently got out of a long term relationship (lets say around a year and a half) and I'm having problem adjusting to "the game" now that I'm a free man. As is before, I was never too confident about my game, but now that I was thrown out there into the world of singles, I see a whole new world of success and failure being presented, and obviously I want to be on the winning side. I am just here to learn and contribute whatever little I know guys, and I certainly hope my involvement in this forum will be beneficial to all of us, thanks! |
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| Author: | 0rion [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 8:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Welcome Fith! |
The first thing to be a PUA in my humble opinion is a attitude if you confront your targets with the following emotional movements: 1)Depression - I so lonely, I just need some one to understand me... 2)Desperation - O God I hope this works its been so long since I've been loved... 3)Anger - This better work or that B*tch is going to get it! 4)Lust (out of control) I just can't wait I will do any thing or settle for anything. Helpful emotional movements are to meet women have proven for me to be: 1) Playful - Lets see if this woman can take a joke, better yet will she laugh at my jokes! 2) Learning - What ever happens here with the this woman she is practice for the next one. Where I will know more. 3) Screening - Lets see what what she has going for her other then her looks. I want to find out if this woman is a flexible giver or a structured taker ASAP. Don't deny your scenes if you see a lot of red flags hit the door first its a good rule in a set (talking with a women with the intention of seducing her) or a romantic relationship of any duration. Also I had a post on the 3 Cs you might want to read. I apologize if some of the reference are slightly out of context but the meat of the post should be helpful: Quote:
keep hunting get numbers get others women in the picture. Don't take her out on the weekends. She has to earn that privilege and if her actions aren't reflecting a women with high interest level you might be lacking on the 3 C's around her:
Play on,Confidence - Have other women in the background that are better looking then her will provide a whole lot of this. Personally I like to have 6 numbers on hand and be dating a least 2 women. That way if the number one starts acting wrong you can pull pack and focus your attention on the good girls. Control: Self-control, discipline, self-respect patience. "I will go this far for you and no further. I like my self 2 much to be you your play thing. If you have a problem with that there is the door. Let me help you pack." Challenge: I don't text message ever. I want to see her body language as often as possible. I have found women speak the truth more with there body then there mouth The phone is used to get to her front door only. Be elusive DON"T CALL HER AGAIN. See how long it takes for her to pick up the phone and get in touch with you. This will answer your question to crystal clarity what her interest level in you REALLY is not what she says it is. Good luck. Remember your trying to RAISE her interest level higher then yours. 0 |
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| Author: | thefithone [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 8:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | wow |
Hey Orion, thanks for all the advice, I really think you have something going on there. I'm sure Ill keep refreshing myself with the 3 c's. My only question right now, is however, the emotional "movements" that I'm not sure what you were talking about. If you could clarify on that, that would be great, thanks! |
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| Author: | 0rion [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 9:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Emotional "movements" |
Emotions are the fuel of the mind. What emotion you attach an event can often change the way you view and participate in your life experiences. Take for example approaching a beautiful woman: A) One man my find this situation terrifying B) Another man my find this situation exciting They are both participating in the same activity but have VERY different views about the experience. Based on the 2 men above what one do you think will have better results communicating and seducing the woman. A vs B? The emotional movements I described in my last post are simply non-skillful vs skillful positions to approach people from. 0 |
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