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Author:  Azer [ Wed Jan 06, 2010 10:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Unusual situation - not your AFC

I'm not the kind of guy you'd expect to be looking for advice.

I have done small-time modelling and get complimented often for my looks. I come from a well-off family and have more than enough money. I dress well, I'm very athletic, being a soldier, and I'm 6'3. I'm also smart, and have been accepted into Stanford, Harvard and Cambridge universities. I have lots of friends and am well connected in my area and others. I also lost my virginity at 16 and have slept with a few very beautiful women, one of which has done modelling on a not-so-small scale.

My problem, however, is that all this 'success' came around during/after puberty. As a kid I had glasses and acne, no friends and certainly no chance with women. I'm pretty sure this has influenced the way I view and talk to them; although I have no problems making friends, male or female, I simply don't know how to take a girl to the romantic level. All my hookups have originated either by the girl approaching me, or me being drunk out of my face. And I'm not satisfied by either quality or quantity.

So my question is, given my circumstances, how should I approach learning the skills? Do I use the same approach as everyone else, or should I take a different road?

Thanks in advance.

Author:  Chillburg [ Wed Jan 06, 2010 11:48 pm ]
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Have you read any articles/books about PU?

Most people here start with that. Really dude even if you're really handsome, you will still need some game.

Author:  Azer [ Thu Jan 07, 2010 12:04 am ]
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Have you read any articles/books about PU?

Most people here start with that. Really dude even if you're really handsome, you will still need some game.
I've read a bit.
The thing is, I'm sure some things need to be changed from an AFC to someone like me. I tried using negs, for instance, and the girls take it really hard. Sometimes I'd get messages like 'you insensitive bastard, why did you make XYZ cry' and so on.

Author:  Chillburg [ Thu Jan 07, 2010 12:22 am ]
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What did you say exactly that you thought was a neg? maybe it really was too harsh :P

Author:  Prosp3ct [ Thu Jan 07, 2010 11:34 am ]
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I'm 6'4, I workout 4 times per week for 4 years now and I'm a model for 3 years now, I play in a heavy metal band with 4 tours around europe and 3 albums and have diploma from mechanical enginereeing college.
So I have looks, money and social proof.

And I still couldnt get any pussy till I got to the game. I would always fuck up everything. So yeah belive me you need game ahahahahahahaha

The way I play my game is, I just peacock hardcore...I make sure that girls know my lifestyle and all of my DHVs and than I just lay back and watch them qualify to me.
I play hard to get and I push/pull them like fucking crazy.

Oh yeah and dont use negs. Use teasing.
Negs from a goodlooking guy comes as being an asshole and player and egoistic...believe me I've been there ahahahahahahaha Some girls call me Mr. Ego. So dont go there.

Only problem with goodlooking guys is that they often come of as a player. And you cant use cocky/funny that much.

You have more potential to get girls than most of the guys. But you must have good calibration than most of the guys too.

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