don't worry mate. we'll get you back to where u need to be...atleast you're more focused now and i doubt you'll let that happen to you again. Only good things are waiting for you.Cheers
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| Author: | Dr. Phil [ Wed Jan 06, 2010 3:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | I became THAT guy! I can't believe it! |
So here's my story fellas, I used to study this material, read several books including 'The Game' and I became fairly good at picking up girls. (I will say that I'm a pretty decent looking guy and I have my shit together so I think that helped as well). Then ~3years I met this girl, granted you might find this a little weird, but I was working every avenue to meet girls, in person, online, etc. So I posted an add on Craigslist and had a really catchy title to my post and I got a HUGE response. I think one day I received 60+ emails no Joke! I will qualify this and say that a lot of them were nasty girls, but about 10 were 7s and above (on a 1-10 rating scale). I emailed several back and only continued to email with one girl. We ended up meeting and she was the girl in the pictures she sent me, and she was HOT! I was stoked! We ended up dating for about 2.5 years then about a month ago she said "I don't think we are giving each other what each other needs" a total bitch break up line. That was it, the end of our relationship, and keep in mind that we talked about marriage etc. I started to review our relationship and I noticed what she was saying about how "we weren't giving each other what we needed" I became that guy, that little bitch that let her control the relationship. I will say that she ended up getting a high paying job and moving out of state. We continued the relationship for over a year, but while she was moving up in her field, making contacts, etc... I was sitting around hating my job and complaining about it. No wonder why she dumped my ass, I would have too. The relationship was out of balance, I had no high value, she was the mover and the shaker and I was the puppy dog at home waiting. LOL. In the end I'm glad all of this happened, it made me realize that; 1. I need to get out there and start hustling in my career. 2. I need to change the way I interact with women. 3. I need to check myself and figure out what I really want out of life. I know this has been a long post, and if you made it to the end, I admire your endurance, but I feel like I finally realize, my eyes are wide open now. It's time to get my shit together. Thanks for reading. |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Wed Jan 06, 2010 8:13 pm ] |
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Just like in the AA, admitting you have a problem is a good first step! You will find a lot of knowledge on this forum I'm sure, I wish you the best of luck in your journey of personal growth! Chillburg |
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| Author: | justmark [ Wed Jan 06, 2010 10:36 pm ] |
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i can totally relate to everything you said there Dr.Phil, .. your words reminded me of myself. |
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| Author: | Dwight Schrute [ Wed Jan 06, 2010 11:55 pm ] |
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| don't worry mate. we'll get you back to where u need to be...atleast you're more focused now and i doubt you'll let that happen to you again. Only good things are waiting for you. Cheers |
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| Author: | Dr. Phil [ Thu Jan 07, 2010 3:37 am ] |
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Thanks for the vote of confidence guys. Women beware, because I am coming. |
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