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| Author: | dc123 [ Fri Dec 25, 2009 7:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | New country, new start |
Im 28 years old and completely new to the world of PUA I just moved to the US and had to break up with my gf in the process and leave all my family and friends behind. I went from having a large social group with access to loads of cool girls to knowing absolutely nobody. I'm not sure if its because of cultural differences but I havent had any positive results with women since I've been here. So I think it's time to learn some new skills and make a new start. Look forward to learning from all you guys |
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| Author: | Chicago [ Fri Dec 25, 2009 8:16 pm ] |
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Damn man, I was in the same boat last year, moved back to the states, i was 28, no social circle at all. Luckily I'm going to school so that's helped a lot, maybe you could take some courses? Do this: Take a class in something, cooking, painting, w/e Sign up with United Way and volunteer at all the different things and find one with the most women, I did the homeless, Habitat for Humanity, retirement home etc. Habitat is good on saturdays, most women, and retirement home has lots of cute nurses. Go out Mon-Thursday. Not sure what your schedule is like, but keep in mind, in my experience, weekend bitch shields are just insane. Go out M-Th while its not busy and get to know bouncers/waitresses/servers. And introduce yourself. Build up a social circle as best you can, but remember, baby steps. You'll find that many people you meet are actually workers from other bars, which is even better. Don't try too hard, don't get too drunk, and don't forget: YOU'RE THE MAN |
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| Author: | sinsitive [ Fri Dec 25, 2009 9:06 pm ] |
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Welcome! For me, whatever country I visited being from the Netherlands was quite a big DHV (drugs = legal etc etc). What country did you come from? Either way have fun learning here! |
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| Author: | dc123 [ Fri Dec 25, 2009 9:23 pm ] |
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Thanks for the encouragement guys, Chicago: good advise about taking up some courses / volunteering. Ill look into doing something like this in the new year Sinsitive: Im Irish so I know how it feels to be stereotyped - people assume I drink too much, which I suppose is true in my case but still annoys me |
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