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| Author: | Outlandish [ Thu Nov 26, 2009 10:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | New from Seattle, and my top score is 0. I need to change. |
Ok so here is how my story goes… I am now 19 and I am originally from Seattle. When I was 3 years old my family moved to Mexico. I lived there for eight years and had many friends. However, when I was 11 I moved back to the Seattle and I experienced a HUGE culture shock. Apart from being American and not being able to speak English, I found that I could not relate to people here in the Seattle area. During middle school, I had a rough start, trying to learn my own language and trying to “fit in”. Eventually though, I became very outgoing and made many friends. I could talk to anyone no problem and in my final year at that school I got my first girlfriend. I never Fclosed. Then, high school came along and its like a switch just went off. I could not talk to anyone, relate, hold conversations or even approach any girls whatsoever. The friends I had made in the past, suddenly started to follow everyone along in the typical high school “group of friends” bullshit, and that excluded old friends like myself. Nonetheless, I was back at where I started when I first came back from Mexico, except with the language stuff. Now, I am in college and I have about two people that I actually consider real friends and many acquaintances. I feel that I fail to make connections with people, which as a result is hurt my chances to form relationships with other people, especially women. When I am invited to parties, I am the guy who is usually in the background holding a drink. Sometimes though, something in my mind sparks and I can be the most outgoing person at the party. Most of the time though, I feel that I am socially awkward and my mind goes blank on what to do or say in social situations. I do not consider myself ugly. I have been told be random people in the street that I am good looking. The thing is I am not able to make this asset an advantage. Girls are shy to approach. Recently, I have been approaching as many girls as I can which I feel has made me better at speaking to women. Sometimes though, there are these circumstances where my mind just goes blank and I lose my outgoing edge. And I get lost! My goal by joining this forum and practicing its ideas is to improve my social relations with people and also to become as affluent with women as I can. Also, it would also be awesome if I finally went all the way with a girl (I never have before). Well this is a part of me. Now its time to work hard to change things! |
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| Author: | attractor [ Thu Nov 26, 2009 11:27 pm ] |
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Okay, I'm not an expert or anything, but first mission for you is: Start talking to new people. Now. Don't even worry about the normal PU stuff. Just make normal conversation. Don't be boring either, or overly nice, just keep it interesting and upbeat. When you lose the social awkwardness, read all the material you can understand and pratice it. |
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| Author: | Outlandish [ Fri Nov 27, 2009 1:07 am ] |
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Thanks man, I'm going to try to set a goal to meet and talk to a new person everyday. I'm going to a party tomorrow night so we'll see how it goes. |
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