hey guys! i found this site because i need to improve my game. i know now that there are structures, things that work and the many ways that dont. i came here to learn those things that work. ive had a fair amount of experience for my age, i am 19 and my number is 21. My reason for breaking up with my girlfriend is that i realised i can, and should do a lot better. i just need to know how. Oneitus is a hard one to overcome because it's coupled with dependance. socially, i am good around people who like me and express this. i am terrible around new people that i see as my equal or higher. i need to learn the science of social interaction and i think that this is the place to come for that! i have just started reading "the mystery method" and "the game". previously i have used some techniques by david de-angelo, which, to be honest appear to be outdated...the techniques got me where i needed to back then, ie, "the one" but i only ever used the techniques in order to attract "the one". now i have to re-learn/ improve on everything. this includes social interaction as a whole. im not by any means a shy person, nor unconfident. i just dont quite understand the intricacies of social tact yet, this is what i hope you guys can help with
im living away from home now. and im known by pretty much the entire village back home as "the guy who gets it" or "the pimp" you get the idea, i was somewhat of a deity there. here in the real world, im a nobody. why? because now i have no rapport or reputation like i did back there. that happened over a long period of time. now im looking to improve my game entirely, from the bottom up, in a new place. This should be fun!
