.....I did not discover it earlier!!!!!!
I have posted a few times on here and thought it about time I say a proper hi.
I am just (about) on the right side of thirty and all this PUA & Game shit has answered many questions about how the hell some dudes have “it” with women.... and why I do not. Like most AFCs, it all started with the famous book “The Game”. A friend recommended it whilst we were out one night and said it’s a book ALL dudes should read.
It’s easy to get carried away when discovering the PU community, thinking it is the answer to all problems, reading excessive amounts of canned material, DHV stories, and various PUA methods, thinking they are gospel.
Whilst you cannot become a MPUA overnight, I have noticed myself applying a few PU principles to women in everyday life, at work etc.... and its great just to have a smile and a laugh back from some of these women, many of who I would of never even considered talking to, let alone approaching with some kind of intent lol!
What I am trying to say is, various “Game” theories act like stabilizers to the new cyclist, armbands to the new swimmer etc, the assist with something you want to be able to do, but have yet to learn how. It’s about taking small steps towards a goal; every approach is a success because you have made the effort to do so, every “crash and burn” is a great way to learn where you went wrong and how address the issue.
Ultimately, if you can enjoy just playing the game rather than trying to win all the time, you can never loose.
Perhaps that’s a little too deep, but I just wanted to say hi lol!
