How you guys doin, just wanted to introduce myself. I read the game about a year ago and found it very interesting but didn't do anything with it. Well my friend reintroduced me to the whole pu world and I felt I should join a forum.

As far as describing myself, I consider myself a good-looking, well rounded guy with a good personality but for whatever reason my confidence is sporadic. When a friend introduces me to a girl or i have some sort of connection with a girl already e.g. mutual friends, I have no problem just being myself. I feel like I'm naturally a cocky-funny type of guy and that works out for me in these situations, but when it comes to talking to girls that are complete strangers, it's totally different. In fact, when I go to bars, for the most part I just chill w/ my guy friends there or will tease my female friends and that might lead to somewhere with their friends, but I've never really just seen a girl and went for it, and when I have somehow been in a situation with a stranger it's just impossible to be myself, I suddenly feel nervous and what not.

I'm sure this is common but anyway my number one goal is to be able to see a girl in any situation and if I'm attracted to her, to just be able to game her. I'm not trying to be a pussy slayer and fuck every second of every day, but I just want to be able to game a girl in any given scenario, and any advice you guys have for me to help achieve this goal would be much appreciated.