Hey my name is Fudwick from Miami. I'm 35 I'm new at this. I bought a couple of books and saw a couple of vids on youtube and what not. I had my share of women but I can honestly say that I have some major AFC traits that I need to work on. I don't know if I can say here which book I'm writting but what a difference knowledge makes. I was able to get a 21 yr old stripper to meet me for lunch and she was at the club (what a place to sarge)! but it did go sour after that. a few days later after i had seen her a couple of times, (The AFC traits maybe)...she told me a bunch of bull on how she didn't want to get hurt again, that she really liked me but it'll be best if she didn't see me. My reply to that was whatever her decision was it had nothing to to do with me as a man. I told her that I live a stress free life and that's what I intended to do. I want to have fun and whatever comes next and if that's what she wants she can call me. I also said that it seems like she is afraid of her own feelings and that maybe she is doing me a favor by not seeing me. Mybe she wanted me to beg , i don't know. Her answer was"yeah, i'm doing you a favor, and that was that. Any suggestion? I wanna get in the pants though (she's hot) but don't wanna be begging, supplicating. I have her number. Help for the new guy.