So, yet another AFC hoping to change his ways and do something with his lack of ability to interact confidently and K close or full close with girls.
Im 19 from near London, Im an Actor , well not yet, i'm at drama school studying to become one if I actually pull my finger out in my next two years!
Anyway, I consider myself a reasonably attractive chap, nothing amazing or to write home about, but like i said reasonably attractive. Im an Actor, I have confidence on stage or behind a camera, and i seem to thrive and grow in situations where i need to perform as an Actor or performer, however as soon as Im in a bar or club, i loose every ounce of confidence with talking to girls. My biggest sticking point has to be 'opening' I completly lack any kind of ability to start a decent conversation going with a girl/s. I struggle to even ever go over and start talking, and the thought of the three second rule scares me incredibly!!and then once (if) i do manage to start talking to a girl, i start fumbling my words and blowing my chances within minutes of speaking....
NOW IS THE TIME TO SORT IT OUT!
I attempted the newbie mission of walking down the street/mall and saying Hi to every female that walked past, i bottled it after getting a weird look after the first 'hello' and thinking ''what AM i doing!''...but perseverance is the key i know!
Let me know if any of you have discovered any basic and useful ways to 'open' that have worked for you, especially if you are a guy that normally struggles with opening....
Any replies will be hugely appreciated!!
-Good gaming
-PUActor
I did note that one down, it does feel like a good opener, thanks for the reminder!!!