Hi Hypnotix and thanks for the welcoming
... did you notice how i didn't use the word "me" above. I could have said thanks for welcoming me but maybe that would make this whole post about me? But it's not, it's about you and the other readers who can get some help from this and any further posts i make.
The point is intention... when you approach someone, what is your intention? To give or take or maybe to create and share? What i mean by create and share is being the guy who is able to make connections with people and be a person who gives fun and pleasure as well as enjoys receiving it. It takes two to tango and it's far easier to have sex with women who really want to have sex with you than woman who aren't sure. Know your value!
So, as for basic pointers, here's a basic one
Energy! Energy is the fuel for life and emotion. People are more happy when they have more energy. Making sure to eat the right foods and get a long enough and peaceful enough sleep is paramount. This all helps to prepare you for interacting at the most attractive level possible.
With energy you can make people laugh, you are more expressive, enthusiastic and generally you're able to move people emotionally which brings up the next basic concept
Make women feel amazing
It's simple really, if you make a woman feel good do you think she will dislike you? Not a chance! Do you think if you make her feel horrible feelings she will like you? Not a chance! So making women feel good is another basic yet important concept to make sure you do.
How do you make a woman feel good?
Most women name a man that can make her laugh as the most attractive quality... women like to laugh and it's not complicated, you don't need to read any books on but watching people who are smooth and able to make women laugh will help you have see and understand what i mean here. Use your expressions and your voice to spark delight and laughter in women... be playful and child like.
Emotion governs the quality and quantity of actions and behavior you're able to make so if you feel great, chances are by talking with you, she will start to feel great to. Some say that the purpose of life is to feel good and i agree somewhat with that statement. Helping others, being genuine, showing respect and admiration for others will make both people the giver and the receiver feel good.
People love rapport, so if you agree with some of the things i've written above you might find that you think i must be a reasonably cool and decent guy... you may feel good about it... this is rapport! We have rapport already just because we share a common agreement. So, find ways to be in agreement with others and i demonstrate this in my live hidden camera videos
I use a simple yet extremely effective question with almost everyone i meet that gets the conversation flowing smoothly and in the exact right direction where i don't have to think about the conversation... words flow and they flow in abundance
"What is your favorite thing about city X, (pause to see if she can answer, if not, finish off by saying) or what do you enjoy doing here for fun?
Body language and eye contact are also important as when the eyes connect, endorphins are sometimes released making people feel connected and even attracted to each other. breathing and mirroring also help and there is a lot more to know that will help but these are just some basic things that make a huge difference in how successful people are with meeting and dating beautiful women.
Thanks for reading this all the way through and your point of view on the things mentioned above would be awesome to read
Thanks
Richard Trigger
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