My name is Ace. I live in Naples, FL, am 23 years old. Just got out of a 2+ year relationship at the end of January of this year. Since November 4, 2008 I have lost 55 pounds. My first introuduction to pickup was in august 2007 when I saw Mystery's show on VH1. After that, in September of 2008 a co-worker who realized I was miserable in my current relationship suggested that I read Neil's book "The Game." It changed my life. I broke up with my girlfriend, but she cast me under her spell and talked me in to giving it one more go-around.
Now that i've been single, I didnt have much of an urge to talk to new women or kiss-close. Women were talking to me but it was based off my appearance alone. I looked nice, dressed nice, and carried a decent conversation. I always reached a plateau though where I didnt know where to guide it, and that's usually where it would end. I wouldn't really care though, because it wasn't my goal to meet women. I have sense been getting to know a co-worker, and decided to re-read the Game to remember some tips and see if I can apply them to woo her, and other girls in my local community.
I'm also reading "The Selfish Gene." I have a good career as a financial planner, and it's not my goal to meet a new woman every night, but I would like to acquire the skills to "lead the dance" with any woman I meet. I also want to have the courage to approach any woman at any time. I did lose a lot of weight, but I have confidence issues still. Deep down I still feel like the fat kid I used to be.
Anyway that's me in a nut shell. Any tips would be greatly appreciated!
~Ace
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