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Author:  Minotaur [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 4:48 am ]
Post subject:  How do I break the ice???????????????????

Minotaur

Age: 30
Height: 6'
Weight: 185 lbs
Body Type: Athletic
Appearence: Atractive



Hello everyone,

Not sure if I'm in the right place because the truth is I do in fact get laid quite often, and have probably had sex with close to a 100 women in my lifetime. Most women would describe me as attractive (if I had to rank myself I would probably say 7 or 8 ) and I would rank my personality even higher (I hope i'm not sounding conceited because i'm not).

So, what am I doing here? Well I guess I just feel that I'm not performing up to my full potential. I've bagged some hot chicks, but for the most part I would say mediocre, and a few times women who I would not brag to anyone about. So I guess you could say I'm addicted to women, and when I cant get a hot one, sometimes i end up settling for less.

That brings me to my main problem... WHY I cant consistently get the hot ones?? Well I guess it's something I probably share with a lot of guys, it's the nervousness I get around the 9's and 10's... the feeling that i'm not worthy of these girls. I've gotten lucky a few times when they really dig me and there wasn't need for much effort, but I want to be able to go after the 9's and 10's consistently and get results.

As for my second problem, well its pretty much a part of the first one... and that's STARTING a conversation with a hot chick I see (on the street, in the store, at the bar/club), or any chick for that matter. I have trouble getting the ball rolling... breaking the ice... sometimes I wonder how I banged so many women knowing how tough this part is for me. I guess I do well once we get comfortable with each other, but it's that damn first contact that I lack the testicles for, and I hate myself for it. I know the attitude is "be confident" and it's obvious... but so hard to apply for me... those dreaded first words...

Any advice would be appreciated....

Author:  Gander [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 4:54 am ]
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AA is depleted with practice and time.. It never fully disappears.. at least not for me, but not going away is a good thing. It adds that thrill.

As for Ice breakers (openers) there are plenty of on the site just use your search and you'll pull up plenty..

Author:  Minotaur [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 4:59 am ]
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Thanks, just starting to explore the site now.

Btw, what's AA?

Author:  Gander [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 5:03 am ]
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Yeah there is a ton of good stuff

but AA = Approach Anxiety

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