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| Author: | Finchy [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 9:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | There are 4 stages to mastering anything. |
I'm Finchy from sunny South Africa and I'm super intrigued about by everything to do with you guys and becoming better at my own game. I've never regarded myself as a PUA however, up untill a few weeks ago I never thought of myself as an AFC. Thats when I realised I've got to put my pride in my pocket, forget my past success and go back to step 1 I'm a sales training manager and I feel that knowing the science behind getting yourself to excellence is very important so I thought I'd make a small contribution here for those who care to read it: Step 1 Unconscious Incompetence - when you dont know how much you dont know. Step 2 Conscious Incompetence - when you realize how much you dont know. Step 3 Unconscious Competence - when you dont realize how much you do know. Step 4 Conscious Competence - when you know how much you know. (I believe at this stage you can teach) When I meet new people I get the impression I'm not someone you'd easily forget but I suppose its only because of that, that I get lucky... and thats exactly how I see it now... LUCKY! There's no tactic or skill to my game other than one stupid thing I to do be remembered, I give everyone I meet a plastic Army Man. Other than that, it seems that sometimes I say the right things and others I blow it. So here I am, I don't mind making physical changes and trying new things, infact I enjoy it, but I really just want to build on who I am already, and hopefully being able to help others. Looking forward to meeting you all! |
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| Author: | Finchy [ Mon Feb 16, 2009 10:27 pm ] |
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oh and please let me know what you think about the Army man thing, lame or not? I started off using it as a shit test, I'll say something seriously like I've got a very special gift for you and i hope it means as much to you as it does to me blah blah blah... build up a bit of suspence and then drop an army man in her hand and laugh. Doesnt have to be an army man obviously, but something random seems to create a bit of interest and they always want to know more... keeping it a secret is a good way to keep her attention. Maybe use it to get her full attention before DHV? |
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