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Author:  TURNthePaigeeeee [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 10:40 pm ]
Post subject:  :) Well, hello there! -a girl
Hello everyone! I'm Paige from Virginia Beach, Virginia and I am 18. No, I am not here to learn how to pick up anyone hahaha. I'm just interested in learning about what goes on in the male brain and how I can avoid being manipulated. :) It hasn't been difficult so far, I mean, I still have my v-card and everything, but I am starting to date guys that are 24-26ish and they seem so much more advanced than what I am used to. =/ This forum outta help me out though, right?

Okay hmm....a little about me...
I'm very politically active :) (conservative)
I'm working on degrees in sports med and sports management
I like to sing and paint
I'm obsessed with the Washington Redskins
...hmm Idk what else to say about myself...I have a lovely twin sister.



Thank you for having me :D
Author:  Chief [ Fri Feb 06, 2009 11:56 pm ]
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You have been lied to your entire life.

Losing your virginity is not a bad thing. (Safe) Sex is a very good thing.

Welcome to the forum! :)
Author:  soprime [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 2:47 am ]
Post subject:  My Reply from soprime
I object to Chief`s remark about it`s okay to lose your virginity. It`s the only bargaining tool you have. Once you eat from the fruit of knowledge and wisdom [lose your virginity] you are never the same again. You cannot go back to being innocent. A man like me would love to take your innocences away from you, its like a trophy. Its the most coveted trophy a man could want in his career as a mpua. In all honesty, hold onto your virginity as long as you can. And give it the man that you feel is worthy of your most prized possession. Whores are easy lays, its the virgins that we watch for.
Author:  870 [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 4:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: My Reply from soprime
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I object to Chief`s remark about it`s okay to lose your virginity. It`s the only bargaining tool you have. Once you eat from the fruit of knowledge and wisdom [lose your virginity] you are never the same again. You cannot go back to being innocent. A man like me would love to take your innocences away from you, its like a trophy. Its the most coveted trophy a man could want in his career as a mpua. In all honesty, hold onto your virginity as long as you can. And give it the man that you feel is worthy of your most prized possession. Whores are easy lays, its the virgins that we watch for.
There is so much wrong with this reply, I don't know where to begin. People with your attitude give this kind of stuff a bad name.

Calling a woman's virginity her "most prized possession" has to be one of the most demeaning things I've ever heard said about the opposite sex, and this is coming from a guy who used to read Dick Masterson's blog regularly. Referring to it as a "bargaining tool" is even worse. Bargaining for what exactly?

Then there's this little gem: "Whores are easy lays, its the virgins we watch for." I assume by "whores" you really mean "sluts," since the majority of women in the world don't take money for sex; and since the context of your sentence implies that all women who are not virgins must be sluts, I can only assume you have yet to vet out your own inner demons and sexual hangups.

You want the truth? There is no "battle of the sexes," and there is no such thing as a slut. There are two types of women in the world: those who are sexually liberated and free of the bullshit inhibitions society insists they have, and those who are jealous of the first group and wish they could embrace their femininity that completely. But since doing so would mean searching themselves and eliminating their deeply-held sexual hangups (which takes effort), many opt to sit on the sidelines and lob nasty words like "slut" and "whore" at the very people they wish they could be like.

Pickup, when used properly, is not about "manipulating" your way into a woman's pants. It should be about working toward a mutual goal. Most women want to have sex with you, and want you to succeed in seducing them. But they also want to make sure you're a worthwhile investment of time and energy, and that they won't feel like a slut afterward.

The aspiring PUA, then, is left with two options: pretend to be a worthwhile investment of time and energy, or actually BE a worthwhile investment of time and energy. Most of the guys I have met here (and most people who are skilled at this art overall) have chosen the second path. This is why what we do here is known as self-improvement.

Welcome to the forum, Paige :)

Your boy,
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Author:  Bonita [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 8:43 pm ]
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Hey there, welcome to the forum. I'm a fellow lady as well and it seems like we are racking up the number of women on the forum lately which is great. We all look forward to your contributions.
Author:  Whoopie [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 9:13 pm ]
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Well Welcome to the forum. I am one of the innocent ones! So if you need help don't be afraid to ask! :D

Ohh yeah the only thing VA Beach has going for them is there 7-11s. Gotta love the Big Gulp slurpees!
Author:  The Fresh Prince [ Sat Feb 07, 2009 10:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: :) Well, hello there! -a girl
Quote:
I'm working on degrees in sports med and sports management
wats up and welcome :D



a quick question. to get a degree in sports management, is it a specific type of school/ college or is it something some colleges have and some dont?
Author:  The Doctor [ Sun Feb 08, 2009 12:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: My Reply from soprime
oOoOoh NoOoZ

Not another one...

Many more of you girls show up and we may have to commision me to play a pipe and lead you all out of the city... errr forum :)


Welcome... and be careful around that Bonita girl... that ones trouble :)
Author:  Whoopie [ Sun Feb 08, 2009 12:28 am ]
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The Trouble ones are The Doctor and Chief! Bonita is just a bad influence who will lead you down the wrong path! She is the Ice Queen of the forum! :lol:

You can trust me and Locke! We are the "Nice Guys"
Author:  Zip [ Sun Feb 08, 2009 3:06 am ]
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Paige,

Welcome. I'm the female mod here, so if anyone gives you any problems... feel free to shoot me a PM or an email. (Zipdirtylaundry@gmail.com)

And don't listen to anyone who comments on your sexual behavior.

I hope you stick around. Anything you need, I'm here.
Author:  Slywalker [ Sun Feb 08, 2009 4:17 am ]
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One thing you should keep in mind as you are reading the routines, field reports and even lay reports that you may find here is that all though many of the guys here are like minded, we are very different and we are in the game for different reasons.
This is not a guys last desperate call for help, this is for fun, for being better at having fun and for whatever reason everyone else has in mind.
Welcome to the forum, I look forward to read your posts!
Author:  Bonita [ Sun Feb 08, 2009 8:02 am ]
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Oh gosh don't listen to these guys telling you I'm a bad influence...they just love the ladies. But anyway, also keep in mind while you are learning, that PUA's are NOT the norm. So while you are interacting with most guys, don't expect and question whether they are a pua because most wont be. And even more importantly, dont let this all keep you from having fun. PUA is about letting you have fun, not manipulating you. When i first learned about this I was TOO skeptical....now that I have settled in I am just enjoying myself more than ever, and I hope you can do the same. Don't let yourself be your own enemy when it comes to dating.


~B
Author:  Phenomer [ Sun Feb 08, 2009 5:01 pm ]
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Welcome...

But why 14 replies here and mostly 0-2 in the other welcome topics :roll:
Author:  Locke [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 2:29 am ]
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Quote:
The Trouble ones are The Doctor and Chief! Bonita is just a bad influence who will lead you down the wrong path! She is the Ice Queen of the forum! :lol:

You can trust me and Locke! We are the "Nice Guys"
and if by nice you mean teary eyed and weepy...then yes
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