How you doing guys? My name is David and I'm 21 from London England. Growing up I was useless with girls as I looked like an overgrown Harry Potter. When I was 17 I ditched the specs, changed the hair and instead of just being the funny kid I was suddenly the good looking, funny and popular kid (I'm not being cocky just trying to get my point across). However even now I struggle to come to terms with some of the attention I get. Now I'm not horrendous with girls or anything just I find it so hard to make the first move. Tbh I do get hit on a fair bit but never by the fit girls or the HB's, always the chavvy, slutty ones or in few of my exes cases, the crazy ones.
One big problem is at Uni and work people seem to think I'm this big player. I'm not. I do get attention but I can never act on it right or it's the wrong girl. I read The Game and last year it served me fairly well but now I'm back to square one again. I don't feel confident approaching girls with my normal friends and the lads I tried a bit of sarging with last year have either moved away or are not interested anymore. I consider myself to be quite funny, flirty but just awful at signs. Let me give you an example
Anyone from the London/Essex region of England would have heard of a club called Faces. I went there with a fairly large group and on the dancefloor kept catching eyes with what I would consider an HB 8.5 maybe. She moved a bit closer and danced near me but I did nothing. I mean it wasn't strikingly obvious but you get the idea. The night went on and still I did nothing. I just felt a bit lost and for the life of me how do I change this situation. I even got a final big smile/stare in the cloakroom queue but all I did was glance and smile back. This happens a fair bit in clubs but always the same result, me being a douche. I don't like the idea of grinding them from behind, don't know why but I find it a tad disrespectful. So what do I say/do.
All the best lads
David
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), but you have to lead the interaction. No amount of flirtiness, humor or looks will ever work unless you have the balls to lead the interaction and move it forward.