Hi everyone
First of, on this historical day, congratulation to all americans who voted for Obama - in case you have other interests than PUA, remember, having other interests than PUA definately makes your game better, but i guess you know better than me about this
So, let me just introduce myself, and i will begin at the very beginning. First of an introduction about my interests in short, my AFC love life and then how i was introduced to the term 'PUA'.
I'm 24 years old. I have a big interest astronomy (please don't compare it to the more or less religious astrology) and have attended the university of Aarhus i Denmark (i'm danish), but left it a year ago mainly to social reason that i couldn't neglate my friends and parties and relaxation
It was very interesting, but compared to all of the other guys studying physics with me i didn't feel like i could abandon my friends to study hard, espically at the weekends where i live my life. Furthermore, i am a big fan of a danish soccer club called AC Horsens, which i guess you don't know unless you're danish, since it isn't a european known club. I play soccer and badminton myself, but i am currently heavily injured.My love life i think is mentionable, not to brag at all, but as an introduction to how i got into PUA. My expierience wasn't much and besides a fun mosquito story i didn't have that many expierences with girls. I can't remember how many times i've said or thought 'I love you', but probably to/about 5 different girls. When i was younger i about 3 times thought i was in love. After my first 'love' i found someone new who i felt a big attraction for and then thought to myself 'Oh well, i wasn't in love before, but now i definately am'. That happend like 3 times as said and then i new Dorthe who i was in love with for 5 years (so i still think today), then half a year i was over her and then another young (by that time) 16 year old sweet girl called Mette (while i was some 21-22), maybe she was just 15
- however, age never mattered to me, if just the personality is right.But i never got into too many relationships. In fact i've been with just a small handful of girls and had one girlfriend when i was 17. It has always made me sad to think that i couldn't get near those who i really loved or those who were really popular for good reasons. Now i'm rapidly gaining confidence almost solely because of the PUA community!! When i was in love with Mette i got a depression - can't say how big as i have nothing to compare it to, but maybe smaller than Mystery's though
When i was young i had a handful of friends (maybe because of my huge amount of great toys
). Reaching my teens i didn't have that much friends - two mainly and barely and real secondary friends. My cousin was one of my great friends who i didn't go to clubs or bars with too often, but sometimes (still today) it happens. However, he a girlfriend going on 7th year or so and a nice little boy less than 1 year old. However, Rene', who has been my friend since childhood, is the guy i've been going to clubs and bars with the most in my teen life. He's a nPUA (natural PUA, right?) who left me in the shadow at the bars while i always was amazed by his. He has been stationed in Iraq and got home from Afghanistan less than ½ year ago. He has a girlfriend who is a non-identical twin. Both of them are popular girls and espically her twin sister is a 9 with great entuastic personality - never got the hots for her, and i guess this is the first time i've had a friend relationship with such a girl i have only positive thing to tell about.But talking about secondary friends i around 1-1½ (last summer more accurately) began getting a lot of secondary friends, and i now have around 8 secondary friends that i sometimes arrange parties and trips with, including the twin girls.
Regarding PUA, to begin in the very beginning, my cousin had asked me to join him and his girlfriend on holiday trips, but not until the summer of 2007 i accepted an invitation to Rhodos in Greece with them. Since they already had ordered they said i should find someone else to bring with, and it was about the time that i've just begun talking with a lot of my new secondary friends, mainly known from my soccer club. Non of those i knew by then were available so my cousin suggested a friend from his work who was at my age. First of i wasn't too sure it would be great to be introduced to someone who i've just met once in a cinema and once at a party where i didn't talk to him, but i accepted - a thing i never regret
Lars was his name.Getting to the hotel we met two swedish girls who we got in contact with litteraly just 10 seconds after entering our hotel room. Later on that vacation we met two new swedish girls, and it was a thing we both had in common and a thing i for the first time got so detailed about with another guy - GIRLS
After the vacation we went to parties together, first alone, and lately with my best friend, Rene'. In february this year i invited him together with me to Norway on skies, which he had never tried before. On the ship to Norway i for the first time start reading The Game by Neil Strauss, former aka. Style. I never read books and it took me a long time to get started, but i don't regret it at all. Lars had convinced me after a long discussion about it advantage. We got to a small town with plenty of bars and even clubs but no people there at all but 3 danish girls. One of them were single, a 6 or so, an 8 who had a boyfriend she didn't like and an 7-8 i liked who was about to get into a relationship with another guy. Both of those guys were with them on the trip, but after meeting Lars and i on one of the nights were we kept their interest away from some swedish AFCs offering them free bowling lanes and free drinks - which we didn't, we searched for them afterwards around the place where we knew they lived, knocking on doors looking for them - something i've never imagined before. When we found them and asked them out (politely telling them they could invite the guys with us) they joined us and leaving the boysfriend and one guy in the scope behind in front of their Playstation. DHW or what
Just after that episode and by reading The Game i knew it wasn't my last contact with the term PUA.
As said, i've read The Game, currently reading TMM and receiving mails from Love Systems and Gambler, who i can't remember how i found. Gambler has of course introduced me to AFC Lyons and though a commercial on Facebook i found David DeAngelo who i've received mails from but i didn't like them as much as Gambler's mails and later the mails from Love System.
So a couple of days ago i thought that by all the questions i had, which i didn't find precise answer for in The Game or TMM and Lars couldn't tell me, i decided to search for a PUA forum, and here i am
So today i consider myself a rookie (nothing but Lars to compare to, but i guess i am more or a rookie than a newbie now). Can't say who is the best PUA of Lars and i, but i guess we are pretty close, maybe most in favour of Lars. Lars is training on 6s or below and i guess i'm going most for 7-8s and thereby hadn't got as many girls as he - been thinking about aiming down to 6s or below to get some more practise - afterall, it is easier to approach a 6 than an 8.
A long intro but i hope it wasn't too much. Now i have something to refer to in case someone wants to know me better, but you are more than welcome to ask me about more stuff on something that you want to know more about.