Hey...
How is it going. This is Adil, and I live in Los Angeles, CA. I came here to share what I know and learn. I came from Saudi Arabia, where things are much different: put the number in her bag in leave and wait for the call. Meet in secrecy.
Me? I am shy at first, unless I was introduced or had the chance to talk, I would not go for it. weird.
I have learned alot and got results, but I have an AA problem. I use my friends to my friend open a set. His does not have anxiety as much as I do, but HE does not know how to keep the conversation going.
few months ago I was with my ex-girlfriend's brother in a bar. He opened a girl and I quickly stole the conversation afterwards, asking her about first impression of a middle eastern brown guy with a pony tale was (which is me). She contemplated and said I don't know, I said come on, and then she said okay let me tell you. I said no no no no no, you had to think, hence it is not the first impression... she then said OK THEN WHAT IS YOUR FIRST IMPRESSION ABOUT ME. I looked at her and said: you are either married and looking for fun, or you are single and sick of people trying to pick u up so u put the ring in your left hand....
So I believe that I am very good in conversation
Now, I need to get rid of my own approach anxiety. I always have this stupid fear (that I know won't go away). I am here to read and understand what I should do, and apparently, it only needs me to just TALK and be myself. I remember the What-is-your-name-what-is-your-number approach made alot of girls laugh when I tested it in day game. But the problem is I do not approach until I get an approach invitation, which I don't get all the time.
It's all fun!
I made a pledge to go out at least 4 times a week and try something. When I use something that does not work, I then find out a way not to do it. So keep it positive.
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