Hey there,
My friend has brought the idea of becoming a PUA to my attention, and i am currently reading 'The Game' and some other material to give myself the right skills.
I have a good friend who i am living with in our own flat in a big city in England. This i feel may be an advantage as English girls outside of London are not as aware of sarging as perhaps those in the cities in the states. My friend is also learning about the methods and is a great close friend who is happy to be a wing man and vice versa.
I come from a sales background, and so in that respect i think it might help in that i have very little approach anxiety, as it is what i used to do on a day to day basis. My friend is a confident lad and also has little approach anxiety, as was demonstrated when we went out the other night.
We approached a few different groups of girls and used some of the techniques i have been reading about and it was at this stage that i realised you have to go into a set with a full knowledge of every stage. I would use a DHV spike, which would seem to work, then i would look for IOI's but then i was sort of left with the feeling of 'what do i do now?' A little more homework needed i think.
One thing i did notice was the fact that when you go out with the intent of chatting to a girl or groups of girls you do come across some real bitches, i mean some of the girls were great, but a few were....well for want of a better word...evil! Obviously this is not a female trait, there are evil men out there too, without a doubt, but one thing i think i have to learn is to get over a woman who has been a bitch and just move on, instead of letting it ruin the rest of the night. Has anyone else experienced this?
As a begginer, would anyone please help me by telling me any essential literature, viewing material or audio i should be getting to improve my abilities?
Also i have been looking at Ross Jeffries, as well as Niel Strauss and Mystery. Although i have every confidence that i will get round to reading it all eventually, is there any way someone who has already read this material could tell me the essentials which i should read first?
Thank you so much to anyone who responds, it's really appreciated.
Pabs.