Hey everyone, I'm Jericho and I'm from Holland. I've been dabbling in the world of pick up ever since I started reading Double Your Dating by David Deangelo when I was 16. I'm 19 now, and I'm afraid to say not a lot has changed. I am, however, committed to making pickup a part of my life, as I do think it should be a skill every man should posess. Also I want to get laid.
Now that that's out of the way, I've got something on my mind about something that happened today.
See I'm taking a re-sit course for a difficult exam that's coming up, and I'm in a class of around 10 people. Thing is, I've noticed a girl eyeing me from the opposite side throughout most of the class. It was subtle, but enough to catch my attention. Now I know I may have been mistaken, but I was willing to make use of it anyway.
During the break, I actually hit it off with her pretty easily, as she was quite a talkative girl. Still, I realized I was heading in the "friends" direction and knew I had to change course fast.
That's where it gets hard, guys. I have no idea how to suddenly swirl a conversation around like that. It seemed to me like it would be extremely awkward if I suddenly started talking about her appearance or whatnot right after having been the quiet boy throughout most of the class just 5 minutes ago. Also, a part of me found it inappropriate to hit on a girl I was studying with (don't ask me why).
I had a full 10 minutes or so alone with her, during which we talked mostly about our previous highschools, where we lived, and I asked her if she liked going out in Rotterdam (including a desperate attempt at busting her balls in between).
My question is: What would you have done in my position?
I feel like I let the situation fail in front of my eyes. After class, the girl took off without even saying goodbye. Maybe she was disappointed in my friend-behavior?
Thanks in advance!
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