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| Author: | Sensai [ Tue Jul 01, 2008 11:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Out of STL, Reflections of the Game |
New to the forum, the game however is like a friend i know well from a distance, looking to get to know it more intimately. studying people has always been a past-time and there is no issue as complex as a woman's mind. here lies the beauty the PUA's before us have laid out. To show us the road map that leads into a woman's mind. I was incredibly interested to hear of a book called "The Game" had been released. I have been writing since 2004 on and off when an LTR ended with me as the chump, and i had 'the game' in mind as a title. So i checked out Neil's book and was enlightened at some of the stories and surprised to see that as with each individual i was looking at a different facet of this diamond of human psyche. I'm here to find good people, rare people female and male people alike, people that will enhance my life and not take away from it. Also kind of the direction with what I am writing about but i figure what better way to find the sign post of positive people and the black marks of the heartless than to throw my self into a community where nothing is left out, bare all. I can be bold at times withdrawn at others, I have decent game and i'm good looking, Haven't had any real action in 6 months besides the random kiss-close. Feeling kinda lonely, need a little more female attention. been on the road a lot, getting a more social job to have more exposure. I am on the never-ending path to self-discovery, eager to learn from the professionals, and proud that my path brought me here. If i am successful in my writing career I hope to write a book that can further dissect the games that we consciously and unconsciously play. Looking forward to future insights. Here's a quick one. At the fair, dancing in the beer tent, spot a cute older woman sitting down, i go up to her and tell her i like her style, she doesn't hear me, i say "i like your style" :confused look: "i like your outfit" she smiles, says thanks and i ask her to dance. we dance harmlessly for a little and i move in slowly. eventually we are rubbing against each other to the beat and i have her pressed close to me. As the band finishes their last song i give her a quick kiss on the cheek as she is looking away, she looks at me and i lean in. we kiss twice, i ask her what she is doing later, she says going home. I asked her if she wants some company. she smiled and shook her head, saying i've been burned before. i told her i would make her feel younger; she smiles and says i bet you would. So I'm tempting right? i say. she says "you are" i lean in and tell her we don't have to have sex. she smiles again and politely refuses, then says you are an interesting person, will you be in town for the state fair. i say yes, so she says well here get my number. she makes sure i enter number and name correctly we kiss again and part separate ways. How could I have taken her home that night? need some help with this one guys. |
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| Author: | AlexBG [ Tue Jul 01, 2008 11:57 pm ] |
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Welcome to the Forums. Im also from St.Louis. but im a youngin about to be 21. I cant wait to be 21 so i can actually buy drinks at the club. Instead of look like a little kid. |
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| Author: | TheAce [ Wed Jul 02, 2008 12:29 am ] |
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First of all welcome. The reason she wasnt going to go home with you was one of the player traps. Disregard of comfort. You gained the attraction , shown with the close dancing but then moved straight into the seduction part (trying to get her into bed) without enought comfort being built. What you needed to do was stop dancing for a bit isolater her somewhere and either run some routines, eg. the cube. Get some kino esculation in. but generally get some conversational rapport going. The question game is great for this as it can share vulnerabilities which at the right time is a powerful comfrot builder. Then get the k close and back to the dancing. The general problem is that you were moving way to quickly through the gears, so unless she is naturally a girl who will sleep with guys quickly you just didnt have enough time and comfort built with her. Hope this helps, feel free to pm me if you need anything i mentioned gone into in more detail. |
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| Author: | Sensai [ Wed Jul 02, 2008 6:41 am ] |
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Appreciate it Ace, makes sense |
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| Author: | bradjackson [ Thu Jul 03, 2008 10:10 pm ] |
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Also originally from St Louis and was there last weekend. Welcome to the forum. |
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