Hey guys,
I go by "Drivin." I blew through The Game in about 2 days. Starting sarging for real one day ago. My first day, I had 7 encounters. Although I did not crash and burn with any, I dont feel like any were a complete success either.
I should start by explaining myself. I was not born good looking. In fact, every part of me that is attractive was carefully planned out. I try really hard to look and be the way I am.
Overview of Visual:
Eastern Europien
No Lines Natural Tan- I spend alot of my time outside.
5ft 11. 165lbs Bench press: 315lbs although i no longer powerlift.
I spend most of my time running swimming and getting ripped.
My face *weak point* is free of acne. Huge Jaw, and larger than normal nose. Theres nothing I can do to change my face
Naturally, I picked the named "Driven" because I have the drive to succede in whatever I do. Girls have been a weak point because while I find success in everything else in my life, I tend to ignore them. (they should come to me right? Aparently not!) Thus, my pick up game sucks. Throughout my whole life I have gotten the few girls I have by them coming to me. I have a hot car, money, etc etc. But im about as interesting as a glass of water if the topic isnt Fitness or Cars.
Also, I stopped attempting to better my game due to a long term relationship this past senior year of high school. She broke up with me 4 days before my senior prom and I was left dateless. This was a wake up call. I need a personality.
End of Background. Time for the current problems.
I began to sarge a 7.5 redhead I caught staring at me while her boyfriend was in the bathroom. (I stopped by the shop prior to a work out, so i was wearing a tank top and shorts && I wear reflective designer knock off sunglasses so i can see people staring at me, but they cant see what im looking at) Anyways, as i talk to this girl with a opener i made up "I need a female opinion. My friend thinks plucking his eyebrows will make him look better to girls blah blah blah" I notice she is thinking extremely hard about her answers. She is really nervous?! I know her boyfriend isnt going to come up and say anything to me for obvious reasons. Then it hit me, I really intimidating. The 7s and 8s try way to hard to understand whats going on, so it kills my game.
I should mension that was my first attempt. Later i would find out 9s and 10s are much less intimidated. Never the less, the fact that I had worked so hard to look this way, was backfiring on the game i was trying to play.
I should also mension I am not one of those freak body builders. I look more like a abacrombie model. Ya, know except slightly bigger, and I have cool veigns in my shoulders and abbs. (no where else, it doesnt look weird) Oh, and ofcourse I dont have the face of a abacrombie model. Theres nothing really ugly or strange about the way i look so i know im not scarring the targets.
I began to scann over my book to find what i should do about being intimidating... I found nothing. This also adds heat to the AMOGs. They act much different when they cant do anything physical to stop you. If i dont close on the first day, they attack me with their personalities when im gone. (yea im being out spoken by AMOGs ... sigh)
I closed 1 number. Passed up 6 oppertunities. I knew as soon as we parted what I had missed or forgotten. And the one number i did get was trumped by one of her guy friends the next day. (I know him. not her)
Im not scarred of being rejected, im scarred the material wont work because she looks at me different than any other guy. I cant convey that when it comes down to it, Im on the same playing feild of your average joe. Hell, i was born looking like one. Theres nothing geneticly appealing about me. Trust me... my face is not ugly, but I couldnt model.
Can someone please tell me how to overcome this, Im in a vicious circle here. Ill post more later, but I cant find any material that will help me.
Cocky-Funny/Stylemogging seems to be working best for the one day I tried.