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Author:  SLeven [ Mon Jun 02, 2008 6:57 pm ]
Post subject:  No problem # closing. need help next step

Hey guys, im new to this forum as well as the game. Well ill start off by asking for some advise. Last friday, i #-closed a girl. seemed interested and i got some IOIs from her. However, (and this has happned several times) when i txt'd her yesterday (2 days after we met) i didnt get a response. by the way my txt was "hey this is steve from blah blah, so where are you taking me this friday?". its the third day since the # close. Should i call her today or what? thx guys.

Author:  JSmooth [ Mon Jun 02, 2008 7:52 pm ]
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For this one since you messaged her today, don't message or call her until she messages you. If a few days go by and you don't here from her try again with a text message.

I think you might have been too forward trying to do a date in your first text message to a girl. You should have warmed her up some first with normal messages.

Okay, since you said you are new to the game and based on your comments above I have to make sure of something. You mentioned getting some IOIs and getting her #. That's great!

However, if you didn't build much comfort with her you're going to have a problem. I know a lot of guys who can push a girl into getting her # within a few minutes of interaction. Although, if you go through the attraction phase. Then spend a good 10-15 minutes building comfort and rapport. When you get her # after that she's going to be more comfortable later meeting you out.

She might be attracted to you but she's attracted to a lot of guys. She needs to trust you some to take a break from her day to meet you. That's what the comfort is for. Then after you get her # spend an additional few minutes with her so she doesn't think a # is all you're after. :)

You could be doing all that stuff and if so then awesome. If not then focus on waiting til later on in the interaction to get her # and then you'll find that more will respond back.

Author:  Brad [ Mon Jun 02, 2008 8:29 pm ]
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Just to add to J Smooth’s response: Time Bridging

Before/after number closing, talk about a casual meet-up and the purpose of the meet-up. For instance, tell her you’ve got this interesting project you’re working on and would like her input. Example:

HB: Blah, blah, blah.
Me: Hey you, you’ve kept me talking for ages, I gotta get off.
Me. Listen, you’re a creative girl and I’d love your input on a project I’m working on. Stick your number in here and we’ll do coffee next week.
HB: Ok
Me: Cool. Get your creative head on for next week!

Remember, you need to set yourself apart from the average Joe!

Author:  SLeven [ Mon Jun 02, 2008 9:24 pm ]
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thanks guys. i apreciate the tips.

Author:  penetrator [ Tue Jun 03, 2008 11:31 am ]
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hey brad thats a pretty smooth move, might have to re-consider my ways as im far too blunt :)

Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Jun 03, 2008 12:26 pm ]
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Excellent addition Brad! You are right on with what you said.

Author:  RQ [ Wed Jun 04, 2008 7:43 pm ]
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Nice Brad and JSmooth. Good tips.

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