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Author:  SunKing [ Thu May 29, 2008 2:37 pm ]
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Hi there,

Does anyone have an opinion on what Dutch girls are like, specifically in Amsterdam? Regarding their personality, are most of the HB's the feminist/bitchy/dominating type like the Germans/Americans etc. or are they more laid back? Are they quite pro expat or more ethno-centric?

Cheers

Author:  la2499 [ Thu May 29, 2008 3:40 pm ]
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really depends if they grew up in amsterdam or students that moved there. when they grew up in amsterdam depends kind of what neighborhood they are from. they are alot different from american girls!

Author:  slyder2412 [ Thu May 29, 2008 3:49 pm ]
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I went to amsterdam and i'm planning on going back asap. So i'm defiantly curious about this one? Can you elaborate on how they are different? Thanks

Author:  reaper21 [ Thu May 29, 2008 4:25 pm ]
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been amsterdam a few times, usually go sarging at this club called ' escape' , i think thursday nights were student nights ( best nights to go for weekdays, ton of girls, go go girls..etc) , not sure if the girls we picked up were locals or students that moved there, but they were pretty friendl, easy to approach n stuff. but some girls at clubs are the same here in london, so i dunno if they are generally like that or if it was just because of the enviorment.
hope i helped

Author:  SunKing [ Fri May 30, 2008 4:10 am ]
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Thanks guys, I too am looking forward to hearing more about how they differ from American girls etc.

I bet the Dutch girls who are not originally from Amsterdam have a better attitude. There is often a large amount of prestige attributed to coming originally from a major city (instead of a small town), at least here in Germany, which makes such girls even more arrogant. There are other major issues with German girls but I won't get into those now ; )

FYI, I am looking for clubs/bars with girls in their late twenties preferably (since I'm 37!)

Cheers

Author:  zzzasdfSDFAG [ Fri May 30, 2008 2:06 pm ]
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Hey. I just moved to Arnhem, an hour outside of Amsterdam. The girls here are EASY to approach. After that its just the language barrier that you have to overcome.

So far every night I have gone out I have been able to strike up some interest with the hottest girl(s) in the clubs, no problem, but it gets frustrating after a while if you can't speak to them, you have to wing all of your material because they don't understand most of the stuff. So be prepared for that.

Author:  la2499 [ Fri May 30, 2008 9:53 pm ]
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dutch people speak good english though if you compare it to other countries like france ect. i dont have the problem with the language barrier since i speak dutch myself.
the main difference between dutch and american girls that i know is that dutch girls are less of the : owh my gosh!! so cute ect and more straight to the point.
itsguud what clubs do you go to in arnhem? in the weekends im usally at my parents house.. (15min from arnhem)

Author:  Romantic100 [ Fri May 30, 2008 10:51 pm ]
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No sorry dude but nice to meet you sunking :)

Author:  SunKing [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 8:31 pm ]
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Quote:
No sorry dude but nice to meet you sunking :)
Likewise mate : )

Well, to recapitulate, here's the concluding excerpt from an e-mail I sent to a few of my fellow fighter pilot friends (PUA's):

Conclusion: Okay so what did I learn? Too early for conclusions of course but if I had to come up with a tentative hypothesis I'd say that Dutch girls are classy of course, hard to impress/a bit difficult, not particularly bitchy or arrogant, but also have their guard up as they're used to being attacked so the best approach is to try to DISGUISE the fact that you are engaging them as a fighter pilot. I still don't know if they're less anti-expat than the Germans. Certainly it's worth doing more research on them.

Author:  Olivos [ Tue Jun 03, 2008 4:29 pm ]
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Hello there, first post, though I hope to help you out.

I live in Amsterdam for almost a year now. I'm originally from another (way smaller) city but I went here to study.

First of all, Dutch girls are on average pretty decent looking, slimmer than American and English girls. Some major differences do exist though, probably resulting from demographics, between girls from A'dam and the 'provinces'.

The latter are more laidback and easy approachable, because the smaller communities make everyone feel more comfortable.
A'dam girls, on the other hand are more roughened up (is that a word?). We have much 'foreigners' (muslim youth et cetera) which cause a higher and tighter bitch shield. They are more protective, more group bound.
Looking decent, friendly and trustworthy is already a giant step in eliminating that shield.

The language barriere is pretty much nothing to worry about; most people speak English pretty well. Amsterdam is always full of tourists, and there are many bars with many native English speakers (Sports cafe, Leidse square, for one).

And of course: you can try PU'ing while being under the influence of cannibis, weed, marihuana, magic mushrooms! Gotta love the Netherlands!

K.

Author:  la2499 [ Wed Jun 04, 2008 7:24 am ]
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great post Kaesar!

Author:  DeToX [ Sun Jun 08, 2008 12:37 am ]
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I lived there for a while.. students are kind of easy especially when they are new to the city.. but if they are grown up in amsterdam there more arrogant.. i dont how to explain but they really like guys who also come from amsterdam there like everything outside amsterdam is weird or something :P

Author:  TheOne87NL [ Sat Aug 15, 2009 12:58 am ]
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hi guys,

I live in the netherlands (Deventer) and personally I don't like dutch girls.
They are too feminist, man like, big mouthed, free spirited types ... personally i love girly girls...

but i can give you some tips,

first of all, dutch girls are very open, about anything, so don't hesitate to start a conversation, they will enjoy it. You will get most of the time a positive response.
though from my experience, they hate opening lines, just start off situational.

Wingman can be handy, but its not a necessity, since even groups are very open for outsiders. its very easy to talk yourself into a group. and making you foreign its even easier.

Be straight to the point, they will, so be it too.

They are not very romantic, so you just waste your money/time on romantic stuff

Don't be too macho, this is a huge turn off for most dutch girls.

They love compliments, but just make one once every hour.

Further the basic things/rules apply to them.

Well have a nice time over here!

Author:  VnX [ Mon Aug 17, 2009 3:25 am ]
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Dutch HB9/10 have big bitch shields.
But easy to get some kino going
and easy kiss-close or even full-close if ur on fire;)

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