wow that's awful. Here is why:
Quote: You see, for 5 months i've liked this boy in my year. I still like him right now. I dont think anyone could stop me from liking him. :S
This means she thinks that you are chasing her, and she is attracted to you but not very much, not enough to stop crushing on some other guy.
Quote: I really do like you, m'dear. But the thing is, although you're a nice guy, but i don't know you that well to be dating you.
Translation: You let me walk all over you/failed my shit tests, and I am bored and uninterested by you.
Quote: I'm really sorry about this,
but i think that you and me could be awesome friends!
and i'd love to carry on texting you!
Who knows what the future could bring?
LJBF!
Quote: anyways, i hope you understand how i'm feeling.
Your a great guy, tom, and you deserve someone who actually likes you, and not as a friend.
Im sorry again.
Loves, xxx
Translation: I know I could have you anytime I want, so actually I don't want you.
Basically stop being a chump. Go read some books, go talk to strangers and get over your oneitis, I can tell just from her letter to you that you came off as being way too AFC all around with her.
I don't think there was anything you could say to her at this point, but there were plenty of things not to say to her lets take a look:
what you type:
Quote: I aint known you any longer than you have known me, and I quite like this girl in our year
what she reads: "Oh, you like some other guy, oh uh... shit well yeah I like this other girl too. That's so funny that we both like other people."
Quote: I wasn't looking for anything serious with you, but I figured that if i spent all of my time going after one girl, then life would lead no-where. It is up to you what to do about yourself, but make your descision.
She already made a decision, there was nothing indicating any remaining interest in you, or that she was choosing between you and soemone else in her e-mail. You're coming off as needy here.
What you type:
Quote: I like you, and would like to get to know you better. If you can't do it I understand
What she reads: "I'm in love with you, and want to bang you. If you don't want to have sex with me, I will be sad but I won't try to recapture your interest and give up hope. Also I'm a pussy."
What you type:
Quote: I would like being friends with you if nothing more, but I have to say I never date friends because it leads to fall-out. You have to decide now whether you can grasp this oppertunity or not. It doesn't affect me, it's your descision.
What she reads:"I'm just lucky enough that someone like you wants to even be friends with a loser like me. I don't date friends because none of my friends are attracted to me. Since I'm not confident or a leader of any sort I'm going to give you all of the power in this relationship since I think it will make you happy, and I will do anything to make you like me. Please choose me. PLEASE. I DONT WANT TO DIE A VIRGIN."
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