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I'm 28, 6'2, dark hair, and I rate my self an 8-8.5ish, the definifion of tall dark and handsome. Yet I've struggle with attracting women my whole life. I've had one long term girlfriend(who i'm still close friends with) and 2 flings, and 6 dates my whole life. In the past I relyed on online dating, which got me no where.
Some of its the result of me being a uber nerd and being very introverted/shyness, and the self estream issues and not devloping the nessary social skills when I was younger from being bullied, and just being weird(People say i'm some kind of mix of Kramer and George and my deranged scense of humour does not helpx))
So baicly i'm tired of getting no-where with women, and well I'm going to change that. Starting last week I challenged my self to start approahcing a minium of 2 women a week and ask for their number(getting over approach anxiety is no easy task but is going away) So far I've approached 3, 1 gave me her number(she stoped texting my after one message, odd), One had a boyfriend(The drummer from the band that was playing at the bar I was at x)) and the third said she does not give out her number but asked for mine.
So does anyone have any suggestions?
Some of its the result of me being a uber nerd and being very introverted/shyness, and the self estream issues and not devloping the nessary social skills when I was younger from being bullied, and just being weird(People say i'm some kind of mix of Kramer and George and my deranged scense of humour does not helpx))
So baicly i'm tired of getting no-where with women, and well I'm going to change that. Starting last week I challenged my self to start approahcing a minium of 2 women a week and ask for their number(getting over approach anxiety is no easy task but is going away) So far I've approached 3, 1 gave me her number(she stoped texting my after one message, odd), One had a boyfriend(The drummer from the band that was playing at the bar I was at x)) and the third said she does not give out her number but asked for mine.
So does anyone have any suggestions?
My suggestion would be to keep doing exactly what you're doing! But keep track of your approaches in a notebook/journal. Write down what you think you did wrong. Most beginners usually need to work on inner game as well, I sure as hell know that I do! Nights after approaching, look at material on youtube from guys like findsocialflow(my favourite), tylerRSD (this guy is great for inner game, but its REALLY advanced PUA shit), Chris Bale PUA, Johnny Berba, Volcano Confidence. You're already miles ahead of tonnes of guys, so if you take nothing else of what I say, just keep doing what you're doing
