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| Author: | theshydude [ Sun Oct 12, 2014 11:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Last cry |
Hi guys Im a 22 year old Croatian dude, and i've never been comfortable with the ladies. I never slept with a girl tho i had a girlfriend for about 4 months, and she broke up with me saying i was kinda dull. I am a total newb at this and can use every help i can get. I want to be able to talk to girls with out getting red and sweaty, and i want to learn how to never run outa conversation material , i want to build up my confidence, my game and every other aspect of my life. Im gonna tell you now i dont have a lot of cash so i cant afford private lessons , i make 600$ a month but im willing to every dollar i earn on this. Can some one please contact me, this is my last cry |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Mon Oct 13, 2014 2:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last cry |
Bro you don't have to spend money to get good at this if you don't want to. Have a look around this forum, use the search function, there is way more than enough information to get you off to a good start. Realize that tons of guys have been in your exact situation and have turned it around and are successful in this area. But you have to be willing to put in the work and face fucking up and getting up the next day and going at it again. If you have questions as you begin to implement or even before you implement, post them up. If there is one piece of advice I would give it would be "be looking forward to great things to come in life." This positive attitude will translate into confidence which the women will feel. It's never what you say to the girls, but how you say it. |
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| Author: | theshydude [ Mon Oct 13, 2014 1:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last cry |
But that is the point i dont know where or how to start, i need someone who has the time to guide me, to point me in the right direction |
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| Author: | Cool Hand Luke [ Mon Oct 13, 2014 1:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last cry |
Go to Youtube. Start by watching Gambler videos. Or other PUA videos. Find a guru you like, that has a similar personality style than yours and follow and watch him. Post questions on this forum. 1st step approach 2nd step say something 3rd step conversation. Also you have to do the work. Stop complaining. This takes work. Everyone good PUA has been where you are. Search this site for information. It's not just going to come to you. |
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| Author: | theshydude [ Mon Oct 13, 2014 2:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last cry |
ye i know that but i literary discoverd this last night, so i dont know anything about gurus or etc. Im not asking someone to do it with me step by step im just asking someone to point me in the right direction. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Oct 13, 2014 6:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last cry |
Welcome to the forum, Read up, watch videos on Youtube (just search for pickup, or for the guys Cool Hand Luke suggested). Get your theory together and prepare a little bit... and then just get out there. The way you learn is to DO IT. Don't get too bogged down in process, procedure, and fundamentals... but it's important to understand the basic principles (that confidence and knowing your self worth is at the heart of all of this... not silver-bullet pickup lines or some shit like that). Approach anxiety will be your big one to overcome... It is for most people - get out and talk to people. Use this forum as a tool. Lots of people - myself included - willing to help you. PM me if you'd like... or post threads with questions. |
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| Author: | BRstam [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 5:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last cry |
Cry no longer, we hear you, man! SO I believe the most light and charming way to start this new life you want is by reading THE GAME - a book very well written by a guy with zero game who managed to achieve remarkable things, Neil Strauss. Does not looks like a tutorial, but it has several great tips if you pay attention. Great book, easy to read and I assure it will give you a light start on the game, but a heavy start on building a new and improved you. Please, read it. |
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 9:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Last cry |
Quote: But that is the point i dont know where or how to start, i need someone who has the time to guide me, to point me in the right direction
Watch a few pua videos online, then go out and start talking and approaching girls. Start off very simple by saying "hi my name is blank, you look cute so I wanted to talk to you". and see how it goes. A guru is good for you because he can push you to approach and to actually go through with what you need to do, but if you just go out and approach and force yourself to be social you will get similar results. If you are very short on money I'd suggest saving it and just going out approaching girls and getting used to it. |
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