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| Author: | MaryMay&Bobby [ Mon Sep 15, 2014 3:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | The beautifully imperfect science |
Hello, everyone. I'm Joe, and I'm 24! I've heard it said that attraction is a science. Though I'm not entirely new to the ideas and concepts of PUAs (since I often find myself looking up what to do/or say in certain occasions every now and then), I AM almost entirely new at applying them on a consistent basis and therefore in a way that seems natural. That struggle is partly due to the fact that PUA rules and dynamics are sometimes in complete conflict with certain aspects of who I am. Now, I understand that if I want to change my "luck" with women, certain thoughts and preconceptions I'm bringing with me must either go or be changed, and I'm willing to do that. However, hopefully my true personality won't be compromised in the process. I'm excited to be here and looking forward to finding the right balance. |
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| Author: | LIFE PUA [ Sun Sep 28, 2014 3:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The beautifully imperfect science |
You do not need to change who you are, you need to change how you think. If you think PUA is not you, you are thinking wrong. A lot of PUA methods exist. They do not all require you to be a social machine. They do not all require you to dress funny. They all work under the same mechanisms. The hard part is figuring it out. The easy part is going out to practice. |
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| Author: | MaryMay&Bobby [ Sat Oct 04, 2014 4:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The beautifully imperfect science |
Thank you. That's what I hear—that I just have to find the way in which it can work for me. So I'll give that a shot. |
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| Author: | LIFE PUA [ Sat Oct 11, 2014 12:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The beautifully imperfect science |
Trust me when I say this is a long road. Finding what works for you may take a long time. A lot of guys start with the Mystery Method, get good, then strip it away after learning the fundamentals. Other schools o though exist. None of it is wrong. I would suggest reading one method, and not studying the techniques, but ask why does it work. Then try it out. If it does not seem like you, still try it, and see the reactions you get. A lot of the being outrageous is to push your self out of your comfort zone and handling social pressure. The greatest guys at Game did the same stuff. Go out, Open, Add Value to the Interaction and then build Rapport. The rest? Built to suit the guy. This is where you should start. Open, have fun, build some Rapport, and try to push the interaction as far as you can. |
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| Author: | BRstam [ Wed Oct 15, 2014 6:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The beautifully imperfect science |
Quote: You do not need to change who you are, you need to change how you think.
Exactly. Learning how to pick up women it is NOT a exchange of character, it's a sum to your character. |
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