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| Author: | Goosebump [ Thu Apr 17, 2014 6:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Getting on board! |
Yes. After about 10 minutes of wondering if I should make this step and "officially" enter the community, my brain sort of "whatthefucklet'sdothis-ed", and here I am. I'm a 22yo spanish guy currently living in the Netherlands (studying an MSc). Some weeks ago, by means that are both boring and pointless to the message here, I started reading The Game. And, of course, I got hooked. I've always been sort of...cute. I'm the guy that was the latest in growing up and so when I was 16 and all my friends had "men-featured faces" I still looked childish. So that led to a low confidence for many years. I'm also a bit short (1.68cm), which didn't help at all. Although I still look kind of childish, I'd say I'm more in the handsome side rather than the cute (though I embrace this last one). I've had my things, though. The most interesting one here was a 2 year relationship with a hot and (very) sexually open girl, that turned out to be too much of a drama queen. I learnt a lot from her and I am really greatful, and believe me, my self-esteem and confidence improved exponentially during that time. Some months before the break-up (a couple of years ago) I had already started working out at least 3 days a week, so after the break-up I felt fly as fuck. From that momen until now I've been in sporadic (if not one night) relationships with 4 girls, but in most of them I was drunk as fuck when moving onto her and I can't really tell what the hell I did. Sad, I know. In this last year I've been working out quite some (3 days a week at the moment, which keeps me fit). I've never had a problem with befriending girls, I'd say half of my best friends are girls and the group of people I hang out the most here (in the Netherlands) are girls, but somehow I do have problems taking things further, meeting random girls, approaching desirable girls. I get this anxiety, and I want to get rid of it. When I first started reading The Game, although I knew it was a true story, deep inside I found it kind of fictious. As I got more and more into it, I began to understand the logics, started watching some Style and Mystery videos and I even tried a couple of DHVs on my friends (the 4 truths and 1 lie game), just to see the reaction. I did it when a rather handsome, tall and fit male classmate we don't use to hang with was with us, just to try and see the DHV effect. It was awesome. The guy went invisible. That's why I decided I wanted to learn, absorb, try, fail, succeed and calibrate on my own as much as I could. I have wanted to start trying many of the things I learnt for some days now, but I find myself in a difficult situation here (or maybe I just want to find myself here as an excuse): I live in a mostly students city. I know, I know, "what the fuck is he saying? difficult situation my ass!". Well, the thing is that this is a small town, with not so many clubs, and in the end you end up knowing a lot of people around, or chances are you'll see a lot of them more than once even if you don't know them. I find it difficult because I'm a complete noob. If I start going out there and fucking it up, it's not like I'm not gonna see that person again. Chances are I will. I have already decided that either tomorrow or the day after I'm going to a town nearby to do the Newbie Mission, and I also expect to being able to enroll in some routine or take it a bit further than just the "hi". Expectations aren't very high, though. So that's pretty much it. I guess I'll be around some time, and so I'll try and share whatever my experiences are. If you have any constructive comment about the problem of being in a small students town or anything at all, I'd most likely appreciate it! - Goosebump P.S. Although I'm trying to drag a friend (and I believe I will) into this world, I'd love to know people around the Netherlands to eventually go and sarge with. I'm dying for trying this stuff! |
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