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| Author: | Amsheagar [ Wed Apr 16, 2014 10:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Good Evening from Japan |
Hello all. If you can't guess where i am from, i feel sorry.. But besides that, please call me Amsheagar. It means one without a name. Don't ask me from what language, I think i took it from a video game. Yes, i am a geek.... I am 29 years old going on 30. I got into "The Game" when i picked up a book with the same name. I have yet had the chance to put any of it into action, so i am a complete noob. So i've been studying the book for about a week now, and hope that it can help me... I have no game. I can get into conversations with women, and even make them laugh. I guess i just can't seal the deal. I am into geeky things like Mythology, Games, Writing, Game Designing, and even some Non-Geeky things like Cycling, Driving, Hiking, and Skydiving. I find stuff like watching sports and fixing cars boring. I like things that can make me think, make me wonder and get my creative juices flowing. (usually they flow as fast as molasses....) I want to think i want to get laid... but when it all comes down to it, i want to move out of my single life and actually meet someone who i can get into a real relationship with. But to do that, I got to make them look at me. I want to gain confidence. I want to believe in myself. I know that's the same thing, but I see a little bit of difference in them. Like I said, it is easy for me to get into meaninglessly conversations with people. Its just the closing that i have trouble with... Recently, i have been flirting with this woman who worked with me. I flirted with her for about 4 months, then she was switching schools. Before she left, i invited her to a BBQ at a friends house. She said maybe... which i should have guessed it meant no. about a week ago, i sent her a gift of chocolate to her new job. She thanked me for the gift and informed me not to talk to her anymore... that i scared her... I honestly don't know how i scared her, because all of the conversations we had, she was laughing or rolling her eyes at me. (Note, there could have been a mix up in translation. She is Japanese and i am American.) I realized that i spent 4 months trying to get close to this woman, only to have wasted that time. This one event has convinced me that i need to change my approach and get assistance in picking up women. |
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| Author: | Cdharders [ Wed Apr 16, 2014 2:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Good Evening from Japan |
Cool. It's good you took her feedback well and chose to improve. You'll find the longer you wait to escalate, the more into the friend zone you fall. First thing to focus on is opening, then lots of breaking rapport. PM me if you've got more specific questions. |
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