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| Author: | hackney [ Thu Oct 17, 2013 2:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | new in London, new in the game |
Hi guys, I'm Hackney, I'm 28 yo, I live in London, but not British at all. I moved to the UK because of my ex girlfriend I first met in a French nightclub (but didn't k-close with her that night, not even n-close, she even had a boyfriend but I've just heard the name of their hotel from one of her friends and shown up the day after while they were checking out, yeah yeah... it led us to 1 year relationship; I might open a thread when I'll be able to in order to explain how I entered to that 7-set having a bachelorette party in the club and spend all night with them, then start a relationship via fb, SPAM, make her breaking up with her bf after two weeks, and fly for the first time in the UK to spend a week with her... I know, I'm insane. We broke up 4 months ago and I haven't got laid since that, never kiss a girl. I am that kind of guy that experienced long relationships (average 2 year, max 3). I am also that kind of guy that suffered from girls cheating on me when I was 18-22. And also the guy "you're like my brother to me". I spent the whole last summer alone. Going out often, but ending up by getting drunk and dancing with my dude friends all night, scared to talk to girls I'd like to talk to. I see girls hitting on me sometimes when I go out. I just don't want them at all. I prefer spending one day a year with a dolphin, rather than 365 tuna. I'm like this. Can't change it. I'm picky. I tried to not to be. I had one night stands, I just felt dirty after it when I'm not attracted that much. I need something more with a girl than just sex. I need to get this special moment that will turn sex into love and that will make me unforgettable to her. I enjoy better giving an orgasm rather than getting one. Physically girls say I'm cute, good looking, smart, blablabla... but that's it, it doesn't go further most of the time. That's why I believe beauty does not help at all and might even be a handicap in some situations (ugly fatty girls coming to you all the time.. wtf!? and not being able to handle them makes you look like a dick). Since my last breakup, I succeed getting two numbers. One was last month with a "10", actress, and the other one was last Saturday night, with the girl I'll call Crush, my ideal girl ever... for me it is a "11"! I heard about PUA last week, some guy I met through good friends that was getting married confessed to me to have used some "technologies" and told me that it actually worked. I just ignored it, until last Monday. So three days ago, because I am getting obsessed with her (I can't eat, I can't sleep, I'm barely productive at work... yeah f*ck... I know what's going on, I just don't want to admit it! and I need to fix that by getting what I want), I decided to buy that book of Neil Strauss and I started reading it. I'm not english, I hate reading books, I'm slow at it (10 pages / hour)... but I got to say... in two nights I've read 165 pages. It is like all my life made sense now. I can't believe the feeling I got while reading it. Everything that happened in my life got an explanation. So for example: I understand for the last two days that I never positioned myself as an alpha, and when I did without knowing it, I got results. And with that fresh experience I had on Saturday, I have been able to analyze everything that happened, what I did right without knowing it, and what I did wrong. And also... I love the written style of Style, he's a good writer. The reasons why I signed up today is: I really struggle with text messaging and how to get a meet setup via it. The meet with Crush was amazing, we all had an amazing night. The following by text has been a disaster, I think I've blown it already. All of this is really new for me. I had no ideas that such community existed. I want to learn from what I'll read here, I want to share my experiences and I hope I will help some of you. We all want the same: improving ourself. Please let me know if I am on the right forum, if this is serious, etc. And most of all: please guide me to somewhere I'll find what I need if here is not the place. Hackney |
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| Author: | hackney [ Sun Oct 20, 2013 8:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: new in London, new in the game |
fuck sake. I got a oneitis now. Need to get rid of her asap. Anyone got good readings for: - how to prevent oneitis - how to cure it I'm trying to cure it the only way I know: getting her. But she is a hard one. I haven't been able to meet her again. I tried though. |
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| Author: | hackney [ Sun Oct 27, 2013 6:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: new in London, new in the game |
Alright. With time I am forgetting about her, so that's good news. I think it is because she is the first 10s I met and got number close, so it turned out to an oneitis. The fact that British girls are in general the ugliest women in the world (sorry to say...) didn't help. I actually had a dream about her actually two nights ago. I woke up and just wanted to cry because how pathetic I thought I was. I realised I have a lot to work on to make myself better. My objectives: 1. Find ways to avoid falling into oneitis when a HB 10s gives me a lot of IOIs and I got #-close (because I blow it by text). 2. Prepare my own materials in order to all the time know what to say and have something to say (I run too often out of things to say while in a conversation with a girl). 3. Kill my AA 4. Learn how to run a one-set and get a #-close, daygame and nightgame. 5. Learn how to text to women. 6. (optional) Learn about online game. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 6:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: new in London, new in the game |
Check articles on my site for AA, oneitis, and online dating. I write about a lot of the problems you have. |
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| Author: | hackney [ Tue Oct 29, 2013 5:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: new in London, new in the game |
Quote: Check articles on my site for AA, oneitis, and online dating. I write about a lot of the problems you have.
definitely, thanks a lot!
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