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| Author: | Bianko [ Sat Jun 22, 2013 10:22 am ] |
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Hey y'all, I'm Bianko, for lack of a better name. I was first introduced to pick-up back when I was 16 when, surprise surprise, I read 'The Game' just like all you folks. I was still too young and too stupid to understand it all, got into it for the wrong reasons and, most of all, lacked the inner game. I was an emotional wreck. I wanted money, I wanted power, I wanted women, I wanted the world. I didn't appreciate anything that I had, not even my own health or existence. Nothing was ever good enough. This said, what is past is past, no reason to create inner-conflict over it It is common sense that you can't change what's happened, but what lots of people take from granted is that you can objectively use what's happened to change what happens now. I'm now 20 and my number is a half-decent 9. Lost the big V at 15 with my first (and only) girlfriend. Girls I've been with range from HB6 to HB8. I'm not an alpha, I'm not a natural, I stutter when I'm nervous and I'm quiet when I'm out of my comfort zone. Yet I'm telling you this from past experiences and the past isn't real, only the present is and that is what I'm going to focus on during my time here. Someone once wisely told me that you can't drive from point A to point B while only looking at the review mirror and expect not the crash. Having come back to the Game more mature than before (but possibly not mature enough) I now have a clear vision in my head of what I want out of this. I want the best possible version of me that I can achieve. I want to use everything that mother nature has given me to the best of my abilities, no more and no less. The Name of the Game The name of the game for me is inner game. I have come to learn that acceptance is everything. I have come to learn that the past and the future do not exist but in our heads, and only the present moment is real. I have come to learn that us human beings are constantly fighting ourselves over what has happened in the past and trying to project a better or worse future, we are never concentrating on the now, which is all that really matters. I have spent the past few weeks concentrating on me. Not who I am or what I do, but simply me. I have dug deep into my soul and realized that all those things I feared or wanted are not real. I have come to accept myself, in every way shape or form. I feel that I am now ready to train my mind in all the things I feel are important in this life, one of them being mastering the art of pick-up. Why pick-up? Mainly because of her: -image- I want to look into her eyes while she looks back into mine, I want to smell her hair and I want to kiss her all over her body. I want to give her the orgasm of her life and I want to fulfill all of our biological needs and desires. Yes, I know, the world is a big place and chances are we will never meet. But you get the picture. The Plan of the Game This is where I need you. The internet is full of promises and 100% guarantees that are hidden behind huge price tags and desperate marketing tactics. I do not have the money or the patience for this. I want to go old-school, so books and field practise. I already have a vague idea of what I think is important to learn, which is listed as follows: --- Eckhart Tolle; the destruction of the ego and the acceptance of yourself and the now. --- Ron White; the construction of a memory palace to remember everything and forget nothing. --- NLP; basic human interaction-- understanding why we do what we do. --- Body Language; furthering human interaction-- improving what you do when you do it --- Kino; the importance of direct human contact --- Field Practise; I have discovered that no book or person can tell you what to say or how to say it in real-life situations, and the only way to learn is through trial and error. This is where I kindly ask you to point out, in your opinion, what else you think is important or what has worked for you more than everything else. Book recommendations are also extremely appreciated, because that market is also overflowing with promises and guarantees and it is hard to separate the bullshit from the real thing. Final Words I know that these forums are overcrowded with people pretending to be who they aren't. I know that they are full of kids and trolls who can't help but spew out nonsense left and right. Why even bother? As far as you're concerned, I could even be one of them. But for one of the first time's in my life I can honestly say that I don't care. Not a single fuck is given of what you think. I'm here because I want to be here. I'm here because I love to write. I love to learn from other people and I love to teach whatever I can. Having older sibilings has taught me that the only thing better than learning from your mistakes is learning from other peoples mistakes, which is what I believe was the initial purpose of this forum. If you have read this far then I take my hat off to you, you've got more patience than 90% of human beings. This post is already way longer then I intended it to be, so I'll leave you with one of my favourite quotes from the Kung Fu Panda movie (which is epic, no matter what anyone says): "Quit... don't quit. Noodles... don't noodles. You are too concerned with what was and with what will be. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present." Peace |
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