Hey everyone, I just wanted to introduce myself and give some background. I'm recently out of a two year relationship and tired of feeling like I have to settle for whatever comes my way. I'm getting involved here because I want to feel empowered, like I have a say and some control over the girls I date. And in general, I'm just looking to take control of my life and stop feeling like such a passenger but the conductor.

So I have a few quick questions on getting starting (I'll try not to repeat the same questions that probably everyone starts with).

1 - What is the most important first step to take?
2- Does anyone have a detailed game plan on progression, things to pick up, etc (I'm an extremely organized guy... so integrating a routine with regular progress self-reviews is vital to me).
3- Mentorship? (I've always been a go at it alone kind of guy...but I'm starting to realize that there's no glory in making the same mistakes someone else could just warn you about).

Thanks guys,