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| Author: | R00k [ Mon Mar 25, 2013 11:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | My first Sarge |
Hey guys, im a 16 year old aspiring pua and I am pretty new. I recently read "The Game" and watched style's annihilation method videos. I have read a bit of the "Mystery Method" And recently in this website's chatroom, a few pua's told me to try and open for the first time. Today in school, a new girl came into my class. During the whole class she kept laughing at my jokes and i caught her staring at me several times. After class i waited for her, and decided to overcome my fear of approach and just say something. I asked her is she was new to the school and we started a small conversation. She is very flame (hot) so as soon as she showed some interest in me, everything i thought i learned went out the window. I introduced her to my friends and even though a few of them tried to AMOG me i quickly disarmed them and kept at it with her. As we stood in the circle of my group i found myself talking less and she started to listen to the conversations they were having instead. I barley had any eyecontact with her the whole time and i think that might have effected my performance a bit. I threw in a few negs when i could, calling her a rich school girl, and a bad girl who is a bad influence on me. I had her walk me to class, and after we got there, she waited for me to do something but i didnt do anything so she went back to class. Looking back on it I had little to no kino I did not dhv, nor do i know how to At times i could tell she was losing interest but i did not know what to do If anyone can help with some advice on what i did wrong and what i can do next time it would be greatly appreciated. Also should i re engage her again or have I already messed up too bad I dont know i feel like I did pretty bad for my first sarge after seeing people like style and mystery in action Thanks for your time -R00k |
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| Author: | MobileKISS [ Tue Mar 26, 2013 1:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My first Sarge |
Do not worry, nothing is lost, your task is simply to establish kinesthetics. If you do not express it to his desire will enter into friendzone Here are some tips to do that: - Going up to her and start a conversation in the middle of a conversation, compliments her earrings "MMM cute earrings" and get out of her hair with earrings and treat them. |
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| Author: | R00k [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 12:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My first Sarge |
Quote: Do not worry, nothing is lost, your task is simply to establish kinesthetics.
Okay, any other ways i can escalate? And how to get over the slight fear of touching a stranger?
If you do not express it to his desire will enter into friendzone Here are some tips to do that: - Going up to her and start a conversation in the middle of a conversation, compliments her earrings "MMM cute earrings" and get out of her hair with earrings and treat them. |
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| Author: | prettyboypua [ Fri Mar 29, 2013 2:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: My first Sarge |
If you get stuck somewhere and run out of things to say, it helps if you implement stacking. Basically, stacking is a predetermined larger routine composed of a number of smaller routines. The goal is to naturally bring her through the phases of seduction - attraction, rapport, sexual interest, etc. If you feel as if you already had her attraction, then what you should have done was move on to rapport/kino. If you're uncomfortable touching strangers you can even just do something simple like "high five!" when she says something even remotely high-five worthy. It takes time to learn how to feel comfortable touching strangers without making it seem odd. There's a bunch of routines that are used to escalate kino that you can look up. The idea is that you should be leading the conversations without forcing anything. Let the interactions go as they go, but when they hit a dead spot that's when you introduce another part of the routine depending on where you think you are. As for the other parts... How do you DHV? Well, since you're in school, the best way to DHV is to be important in your own social circle! School is a bit lame in this sense in that if you get stuck in a lower value social circle or you're regarded as not being that important in your social circle, you're kind of fucked and it's hard to change when you see these people on a daily basis. That's not to say you won't be able to sarge girls at your school (just look at all the nerdy/average guys at your school that end up with girlfriends); you just won't have as good of a chance at succeeding if you go for a "higher value" girl. You had the right idea when you deflected your friend's AMOGing, but you should have walked away with the girl once they started taking control of the interactions. The reasons for this being: 1. You obviously ran out of things to say here and you might not be the "leader" of your group, so leaving here would have shown that you are independent and don't need to rely on friends to do things you want to do 2. It would give you a chance to isolate her and escalate kino How would you do this? Well, since she's new to the school and you showed her that you have friends, you're already of higher value to her. In fact, the longer you stayed there without talking or making eye contact, the more you risked lowering your value. That's not to say that it's beyond salvage, but why take any chances? DHV as much as you can DHV without seeming like a showboat (you said you've read up on Mystery's stuff so I'm assuming you know about how to DHV with subtlety). You could have simply said, "Hey, do you know the campus that well yet? Why don't I show you around?" and then taken her away from the group. Now... should you re-engage her? I'd say.... sure! It is, after all, a school setting where you'll see the same people over and over again - which means that progressing things slowly is not only an option... it's a very common one! On top of that, you really didn't even do much (from the sounds of it) to show interest. If there was no blatant rejection, why would you be afraid to keep talking to her? She even showed signs of compliance by walking with you to your class after all that, so you probably didn't do as bad as you thought! Just be careful not to develop oneitis as this can mess up your game pretty bad, especially when you're first starting out. And don't forget - a lot of this pickup stuff may seem serious at first, but one of the most important parts of picking up women is to remain fun and playful! If you're having fun, she'll naturally be having fun as well. Hope this helps and good luck! |
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