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| Author: | mcfly_22 [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 6:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | introduction and need of advice! |
hi guys, im brazilian and been living in london for 9 months now. Came here to do a Master and also with the purpose of starting a new way of life. Always had some friends in Brazil, but I have a huge difficulty in dealing with girls. I am really shy, which doesnt help, but I thought that with that things would get better. I have never dated a girl or had a relationship, although this is one of my biggest dreams. I'd love the fact that Im good with girls and that, but first I need some kind of experience, right? Forgot to mention Im 23 now. I dont think Im ugly (would say 6/6,5) and try to be respected in all I do. As I moved to london, I tought to myself - nobody knows you, relax, be confident. Unfortunately, this didnt happen.I feel the same and consider coming back as soon my course finishes. To be fair, during this time, I probably kissed 3 or 4 girls, none with any effort (happens they basically went for it) and none that I really wanted. To actually make things worse, I cant take a girl from my course out of my mind. It has probably something to do with my needy state, but tbh this is only the second time i feel like this for a girl. We barely speak and Im pretty sure this is my fault. Although I have approach anxiety with any girl, with her i basically freeze. Which brings me to the last two times we met. There were 2 birthday parties we both went and besides saying hello i wasnt able to carry any conversation. What made me really sad were the fact that those awkward silence moments when she was near me, maybe waiting for a conversation, were embarrassing. I simply didnt know what to say and the more i tought more I got nervous. Now the classes are ending and I dont even know when Ill meet her again. I had contact with pua stuff before, but lightly and as you see, nothing really happened. I read the game, mysterys toughts and gambler book. The last seems more believable to me as I find random openers etc hard to pull off. From now, ill do whatever i can to stop living such a miserable life. What do you guys think i should do regarding this girl? just forget her (you lost too many chances)? I thought about trying to carry conversations on facebook at least from now on (you know when you really just wanna be able to talk to someone) but dont know if its too weird. What do you guys think? |
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